"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFK Protector

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ok well, I am weak as hell right now. But I have an adjustable 30 lb dumbbell (2 of them).

I also got a chin-up bar that I installed on my door so I can do chinups and stuff.

I use like 70 lbs for the lat pulldown. yeah see i'm pretty weak.

uh...ok so how does my fullbody look? i remember doing deadlifts and squats and i was literally dead after those. i can probably do those once a week each.

but i <3 the chin up bar
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey AFK, quick questions. Answer with discretion.

The reason behind your wokouts, are they going to be used for show(purely visual) or tell(preferably by an impressed "wingman")?
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
He means being strong vs just doing it for looks.
To be honest, I don't think at least people on this board do it for nothing but strength. I wanna be strong so I can defend myself , but looking good is freakin essential in my book.

Game + looks > game only
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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