"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Today is Thursday and it's time for another workout! I'm going to do cardio around 8:00 PM NO MATTER WHAT DAMMIT!!!

Right now I'm getting hydrated for cardio and then I'll take a piss + more water during/aftr cardio.

I added lateral raises to my fullbody workout becuase my shoulders don't feel like they're getting a strenuous enough workout. Even though I can barely do 10 reps (I'm like...sweating like crazy to get it a full extention here), the mirror is showing little improvment. Then again.....I only get about 50-60 g of protein daily .... :(

But now I have MORE WHEY and I'll be back on track no doubt.

Weight: 143 lbs
%BF: 15.5%

Morning Cardio @ 6:20 PM DONE

Crunches 3x20 DONE
Leg Curls 3x12 DONE
DB-Bench Press 3x12 DONE
Lat Pulldowns 3x12 DONE
DB-Shoulder Press 3x12 DONE
DB-Lateral Raise 3x12
DB-Tricep Overhead Extensions 3x12 DONE
DB-Curls 3x12 DONE
DB-Standing Calf Raises 3x15-20 DONE

DB-Deadlift 3x12 PENDING FOR SATURDAY

DONE

HOLY CRAP MY %BF WENT DOWN TO 15.5% FROM 15.9% I ALSO GAINED A POUND. It isn't water weight because I went to take a piss right before weighing.

Also, I didn't do lateral raises...full body workouts exhaust me.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm thinking of doing 1 more week of this then going on the Max-OT plan for bulking.

Weight: 143 lbs
%BF: 15.5%

Morning Cardio @ 6:20 AM DONE (did it around 12 or 1 PM)

Crunches 3x20 DONE
Leg Curls 3x12 DONE
DB-Bench Press 3x12 DONE
Lat Pulldowns 3x12 DONE
DB-Shoulder Press 3x12 DONE
DB-Lateral Raise 3x12
DB-Tricep Overhead Extensions 3x12
DB-Curls 3x12
DB-Standing Calf Raises 3x15-20

DB-Deadlift 3x12 PENDING FOR SUNDAY

DONE
 

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max-ot straight away

however, i'd recommend not listening to its carb guidelines if you're looking to bulk. apart from that it's not much different from diesel's guide
 

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Originally posted by gav
max-ot straight away

however, i'd recommend not listening to its carb guidelines if you're looking to bulk. apart from that it's not much different from diesel's guide
Thank you man. I swear you must be picking up chicks left and right with the way you've been lifting in your journals.

Max-OT I will start tomorrow. I read up on it throughout the day today. yay
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LAST DAY OF MY FULLBODY ROUTINES. GOODBYE DEAR FRIEND.

Weight: 143 lbs
%BF: 15.5%

Morning Cardio @ 6:20 AM DONE (did it around 9 PM)

Crunches 3x20
Leg Curls 3x12 DONE
DB-Bench Press 3x12 DONE
Lat Pulldowns 3x12 DONE
DB-Shoulder Press 3x12 DONE
DB-Lateral Raise 3x12
DB-Tricep Overhead Extensions 3x12 DONE
DB-Curls 3x12 DONE
DB-Standing Calf Raises 3x15-20

DB-Deadlift 3x12 PENDING FOR SUNDAY

DONE

MAX OT STARTS TOMORROW WOOOOOOO!! I'm so pumped for this. I didn't do standing calf cuz max-ot has that for my ass tomrrow. Woot!
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
yo. I tried Max-OT but some exercises I couldn't do because I didn't have a barbell at home. So....should I just not do max OT now or keep doing it but substitute stuff I can't do with other exercises, but the same max-OT principles?
I might go back to my old workout, and just apply some Max-OT principles like less reps, more sets and heavy weights.

I don't have the money/time to go to a gym so I guess I'll do what I can at home speaking of which I hope I get a job soon, but then again in college they have free gyms.
 

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yo guys. another question here.

I'm a beginner so is like 1 day of rest between fullbody workouts enough? Because I might get beginners gains you know. but still, is it enough recovery time? I never feel sore or anything. And I'll take a lot of protein if you want. I get 8 hours of sleep now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you work out at home?

If yes, do you have a home gym?
 

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yaeh I have a bench, a set of adjustable dumbbells up to 30 lbs, a homegym upright thingy where you can do pulldowns and stuff (kinda like what a bowflex does but its not a bowflex) and then I have a treadmill.

by the way for anyone who cares, I am posting this now at bodybuilding.com

the link is this:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=513631

later dudes. loggin off
 

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We virtually have the same stats, besides a few differences. Did working out at home help, significantly?
 

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Incidentally AFK, if you're new to this then the best advice I can give you is get out of the bulk/cut cycle concept. It's absolute shiat.

Cut down to a bodyfat that you're happy with, then just get bigger. WITHOUT the excess fat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Incidentally AFK, if you're new to this then the best advice I can give you is get out of the bulk/cut cycle concept. It's absolute shiat.

Cut down to a bodyfat that you're happy with, then just get bigger. WITHOUT the excess fat.
Hey thanks a lot man. Yeah, right now I'm trying to CUT but I still workout so I do not lose muscle or prevent it from being as bad as it could be. When I dropped from 180 lbs, I didn't know shiet and jsut did cardio and lost a shiet load of muscle mass. So yeah, trying to prevent that. After I cut down to 10-11% bf, I'm gonna start clean bulking like a squirrel on crack! Thanks again man and take care.

anyways, I came back to post my fitday link:

yellowspeed (afk's) fitday journal

the workout/training link is still the same as 4 posts above. Fitch, I dunno but I have seen a little gain. Not too much of course because I just started. To be honest this isn't a one or two month or three month deal. This is a workout for my whole life and I intend on continuing it. If I get chicks along the way, great. If not, I have an awesome healthy body anyways and that is a good thing.

So just keep working at it man. The key is not to give up and stop looking for quick fixes. Do what you can for now (pushups, crunches, etc) but just keep at it. Also, I'm sure NYC has public gyms at the park district and those should be accesible to you. I know chicago does. later man

loggin off again. I'll post progress pics the next time im back :)
 

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BUMP!! ... and then some

Crunches 3x20
Leg Curls 3x12
DB-Bench Press 3x12
Lat Pulldowns 3x12
DB-Shoulder Press 3x12
DB-Tricep Overhead Extensions 3x12
DB-Curls 3x12
DB-Standing Calf Raises 3x15-20

DB-Deadlift 3x12 (once a week)
DB-Squats 3x12 (once a week, the other day)
Ok I've ditched the 5 day split. How does this beginner's fullbody workout look? I will probably do it Wednesdays and Saturdays. Yeah?
 

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you're gonna need an olympic bar set I'm thinkin if you wanna get bigger/stronger... especially for your squats/deads.
 

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AFK, post the weights you use too. It's hard to see what you are doing when we don't know what weight you use.

If you want great results, the best way is to center your workout around BIG COMPOUND lifts (like squats, deadlifts, bench, chins). Do those HEAVY, with LOW REP sets (3 to 5 reps). Do medium to high sets.

For assistance work (isolation), do moderate weight for high reps (10-20) and low to medium sets.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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