"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Affirmations?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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What you are really doing is reinforcing a positive attitude and positive self-talk. I had a chick read mine into a tape that I play to myself. I guess my theory is it will help by providing me with positive feedback from others as well as my efforts to develop better self-talk.
Another thing I have done is taken a survey of traits by females who have known me for at least a few months, I never asked guys to do this because most of my guy friends would probably die laughing
Anyway, aside from learning which areas might need attention, I have learned I am really quite effective in my self-presentation.I think the affirmations, sedona method, cognitive-behavior therapy, and mediation all have given me something useful. Affirmations by themselves would help, and some recent studies I've read suggest they do, but I personally feel they are best combined with other tools. Women defintely pickup on the fact that you're a guy who has his emotions handled. Emotionally needy men tend to repel women.
Speaking positive words of beleif over yourself really works, all successful people say and believe that they are a success, where as all losers in life speak and believe negative things.
Work out what your weaknesses are and focus on fixing these things, both by doing the practical and by affirmations, set goals and achieve them, focus on your previous successes in life, rather than on your past failures, try to improve on the easiest things first then start on the harder ones, tell yourself that you are confident, act it out, and things will change. :yes: