"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Affirmations/Hypnosis
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Senior Don Juan
you want confidence, learn how hypnosis works...
its a subject ive studied ruthlessly for over a year now, and it truly has changed my life for the better....
buy a book, brows the web and learn how , yours, mine and every women you want to talk to, how there mind is programmed with simple words... its a very interesting subject.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I don't have major confidence issues or anything but I use NLP to clean up any little problems I have developing.
Anyway, you know what, all of that effort, and I still had a little nervous tick inside of me. Nothing you'd notice probably, but definitely there.
Then (see other thread) I finally got frisky with this HB9 I was after, and since then I've moved mountains with my confidence.
I just walk around with this completely internalized "I could really care less" attitude toward almost everything and a grin on my face.
Hypnosis? NLP? Useful, but no substitute for the real thing.
For instance, I have a limiting belief that all caucasion chicks are nazi's and wouln't date a brown haired/brown eye'd guy with a spanish backround. And unfortunately that's what I like the mosty are dirty blonde arian looking woman. Go figure.
This limits me to the extreme to approach these kind's woman. If she doesn't smile at me as I glance over, I feel she'll hate me before I even walk up. Talk about being stuck. This adds to the problem up and above everything else.
Please don't say this stuff doesn't work because that's all the tools I know of right now.