Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Affirmations/Hypnosis
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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you want confidence, learn how hypnosis works...
its a subject ive studied ruthlessly for over a year now, and it truly has changed my life for the better....
buy a book, brows the web and learn how , yours, mine and every women you want to talk to, how there mind is programmed with simple words... its a very interesting subject.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I don't have major confidence issues or anything but I use NLP to clean up any little problems I have developing.
Anyway, you know what, all of that effort, and I still had a little nervous tick inside of me. Nothing you'd notice probably, but definitely there.
Then (see other thread) I finally got frisky with this HB9 I was after, and since then I've moved mountains with my confidence.
I just walk around with this completely internalized "I could really care less" attitude toward almost everything and a grin on my face.
Hypnosis? NLP? Useful, but no substitute for the real thing.
For instance, I have a limiting belief that all caucasion chicks are nazi's and wouln't date a brown haired/brown eye'd guy with a spanish backround. And unfortunately that's what I like the mosty are dirty blonde arian looking woman. Go figure.
This limits me to the extreme to approach these kind's woman. If she doesn't smile at me as I glance over, I feel she'll hate me before I even walk up. Talk about being stuck. This adds to the problem up and above everything else.
Please don't say this stuff doesn't work because that's all the tools I know of right now.