"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Affirmations and Rap Stars

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I was just thinking a bit about how a lot of rappers say stuff like "best rapper alive" and how they get all the honeys etc.

It occurred to me that, in a way, these songs are a form of affirmations that might have a part in the rappers having that super confidence they seem to possess.

Thoughts?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Those guys have money and status. It doesn't matter what the hell they do. They can be the most AFCs ever and still get poon. Those same guys without status & money and that same confidence will be seen as arrogant d!cks and get nothing.

For example, a pop star James Blunt sings the most whiny AFC sh!t and sounds like he's got his balls cut off, but he dates the top celeb babes and has millions of other babes lusting after him.

I'd rather learn game from guys who don't have such factors that elevate themselves to the point where they don't really need any game to succeed.
 

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Yea totally true . They dont need game at all .
Remember ? Girls are attracted to money , fame and guys who are preselected by other womens .

Dont get me wrong , im not saying that you need these things to get girls . We dont need this at all because we are DJ :p lol . But if you have fame,money and your preselected , you dont need routines , openers and DJ attitude .
 

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All this emo music I listen to can't be doing me any good then :p
 

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Rappers: The art of singing about how great your are, and how many women you can pimp. All lies, but with one hit single, it all comes true.

Rappers are like prayers. They get what they want when they pray(rap) hard enough for the things they want.

A true American Dream!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Like Phife from Tribe Called Quest said... If I don't say I'm the best, who will?

Honestly...who's gonna be like...I'm the third best rapper alive!!!!!! lol.
 
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I don't know why there is such a racial dichotomy between types of music in our country:

white people make (in general): cry-baby emo music (AFC style) yet somehow still get laid

black people (in general): are known for rap - which is almost unrealistically pimpin' and they get laid too. Many rap lyrics sound like what this site tells you to think like.
 

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interesting point. Have a look at kid rocks' 'devil without a cause" album. actually, just take a gander at some of the lyrics. all about how he is the shyt, how he gets paid all the time, etc. but he wrote those songs, made that album pretty much before anybody knew who he was. and it all came true. gives credence to that other thread about beliefs and self fulfilling prophecies and all that.

one thing about affirmations,if you compare most affirmation guru's method, to afoementioned album: say affirmations in the present tense, and use plenty of emotion. kid rock did both.

so the take away? write some rap song about how you ARE whatever you want to become, and sing it with emotion and then put it on youtube.
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
interesting point. Have a look at kid rocks' 'devil without a cause" album. actually, just take a gander at some of the lyrics. all about how he is the shyt, how he gets paid all the time, etc. but he wrote those songs, made that album pretty much before anybody knew who he was. and it all came true. gives credence to that other thread about beliefs and self fulfilling prophecies and all that.

one thing about affirmations,if you compare most affirmation guru's method, to afoementioned album: say affirmations in the present tense, and use plenty of emotion. kid rock did both.

so the take away? write some rap song about how you ARE whatever you want to become, and sing it with emotion and then put it on youtube.
You mean like "Chocolate Rain"?:D :D :D :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You still need game if you want something to last longer than a month.

Jitterbug said:
For example, a pop star James Blunt sings the most whiny AFC sh!t and sounds like he's got his balls cut off, but he dates the top celeb babes and has millions of other babes lusting after him.
Here's a little anecdote about James Blunt:

Have you ever driven a tank? James Blunt has. Before launching a career in leprechaun troubadourism, James Blunt served as a captain in the British Army. Granted, it's the British Army, but you can bet your ass that the training required to make captain involves learning several techniques that would see to it that he could whoop your ass six ways to Sunday before you land a single womanly slap.

To make matters worse (for you), during the war in Kosovo Blunt was put in charge of leading 30,000 troops into the Kosovan capital. So not only could he **** you up proper, he's the type of dude that people put in charge of ordering around tens of thousands of other men fully capable of doing the same. It should go without saying he leaves a trail of vanquished supermodels in his wake wherever he goes.
http://www.cracked.com/article_15760_closeted-badasses-6-famous-wusses-that-would-own-you.html
 

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Some rappers rap about stuff they don't really mean or never done. Some only get pvssy from what other mentioned... Cause their famous and have that status. Some actually do got game.

One rapper who's name is Too $hort. Raps about pimpin ho's and all that. But, in a interview he said he is not really like that and only raps about it. People just blew him up to be this great Original Gangster.

Another rapper I listen to and like goes by the name of Smoov-E. He claims to be a playa from Tennessee. He mainly raps about getting girls, fvckn them, and his 8inch donkey.

The question is were they Macs before they were famous or only after?
 

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Thats my goal right there, to be famost/ballin' and making millionz and throw the middle fingga to them hattaz. On Da Cool...

and this:

The question is were they Macs before they were famous or only after?
^^It all dependz on the situation. Some are real az real and some just do it on the rap tip. It all dependz doe. But the industry iz something else, thats 4 sho. On Da Real...
 

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Supremo said:
these songs are a form of affirmations that might have a part in the rappers having that super confidence they seem to possess.
I had to read that sentence 3 times before I understood it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're wealthy and got high status like that, you'd have to be the most retarded person in the world to not be able to get laid.

You can be with this status and look like Freddy Krueger, and still get laid. Mr. Right may not have money and status, but women are so damn oblivious to that and go for the ugly rapper that they'll never get!

If you ain't got money and status, you better be packin Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp looks!
 

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So what I'm hearing is, the rappers say their ****, and people just start to believe it. Then Mystery's old "preselected by other women" thing comes in and BAM! Poonani off the ying-yang.
 

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Supremo said:
So what I'm hearing is, the rappers say their ****, and people just start to believe it. Then Mystery's old "preselected by other women" thing comes in and BAM! Poonani off the ying-yang.
There is one thing that all the good rappers seem to have: they are SMOOOOTH. They are confident which makes gives them a sexy air about them (even the very ugly ones).

Can't help but stop and appreciate a man who knows who he is (and no, I'm not talking about those two-bit loser rappers/hip hoppers that are all about the bling and the hos) - I'm talking more about the hotties from wu tang, Nas, etc.
 

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Why do you think Flavor Flav fvks those broads? It's def not his looks...or his game...but more his status, money...
 
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