"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Affirmations and how good they can be.

RedKnight04

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I personally love affirmations. They can be the wonder block for alot of us Don Juans.

You see your mind thinks sometimes when we aren't even using it. This is our unconsious mind which most of the time builds off of our subconscious mind.

When you think something with your unconsious mind for instance - You drop something and say "Oh I'm stupid." (to yourself) Even if you think you know you aren't stupid - that little message went in UNNOTICED. It fell into your mind without your approval and got noted as a belief.

To change any belief we have - we must first manually go into our minds and adjust them. This is where affirmations blow straight through.

You see our brain's are funny - If you tell it something, even if you think it isn't true (AT ALL!) , several times it will AUTOMATICALLY start to believe it is true. Your brain will automatically start spitting out reasons why this is a true statement after you say the same thing over and over.

For example, "I am smart." Simple one here. When you keep saying that to yourself you start to say no I'm not unconsciously, but after about 15 times saying this straight - even outloud - Your mind will begin shooting out reasons why, you can't say it doesn't because IT DOES! Your brain does this automatically!

When your talking to a girl keep saying to yourself - "I am too comfortable, I am so witty." "I can do this." and so on, NOW, don't make your lips move like crazy - but keep telling yourself this and things will change, trust me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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