"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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612_Da_Playa

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Has anyone heard anything about porn distorting your view of women? I heard of this one guy watching porn and his whole view of women was as objects so he lost his sexual drive for women. He said that he felt like he couldn't fall in love anyomore. Anyone wanna comment on what they know on pornography and its affects?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sure. Porn is basically a distraction from going out and getting any real *****. It's a substitute for real sex, and wanking to porn will probably give most less ambition to go and get some real action.
 

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Porn is for loosers..Porn is also for AFC's so if u think ur a DJ and watch porn and beat yo monkey.. ur not a real Dj.. and DJ can get real *****. END OF STORY
 

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Originally posted by Phat
Porn is for loosers..Porn is also for AFC's so if u think ur a DJ and watch porn and beat yo monkey.. ur not a real Dj.. and DJ can get real *****. END OF STORY
I will take your opinion as a real straight fact. i watch porn and beat it to it from time to time. i dont watch enough to where it affects me in a big way but it deffintly is for losers who cant get any.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone who says they don't watch porn is a liar, plain and simple.

Please, mods, why do we let bullshit like this on the forums?
 

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This is some serious sh*t, you guys. I'm not playing. I'm hearing of guys losing interest for females because of the brain cycles not being used to the behaviors being depicted. It will mess you up. To counter it, get out there and just talk to women, for better or for worse to reinforce the natural male brain stimulations for women.
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
Anyone who says they don't watch porn is a liar, plain and simple.

Please, mods, why do we let bullshit like this on the forums?
By the way I don't watch it. Don't get people confused with yourself bro. I guess we can separate the players from the AFCs.
 

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It won't distort anyone's mind unless they're already ****ed up to begin with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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