This is copied from a women's website, from the "Relationships and Advice" section. It's advice to guys as well when it's posted on this forum.
Dated recently, the post reads like this:
I don't know how to tell Charlie that I am not comfortable around him because he's so fvcking clingy. We've been dating since Saturday night.
Sunday night when he picks me up, first thing he thinks to say isn't Hi, how are you?... He comes out with,"Did you miss me?" I wanted to laugh and ask,"Scuse me, how long have we been seeing each other?"
Today is Valentine's Day. I should be thankful to have a boyfriend. I would've been even more thanful to spend it ALONE!
Charlie thinks that just because to day is VDay, we have to make love...
I was biting my tongue the whole damn time. I wanted to bark out,"Come on, Sparky!!! Where is the fire? Where is the passion?"
I have a cold. I have told him over and over again to leave me alone so I can get better so I possibly may be in a better mood and more likely to cuddle...So, he whines to our friend, Mikey. Mikey has known me since the fourth grade. Mikey knows me well enough to know that if I'm sick, bring around the action/drama/comedy, not intimacy.
He tells Mikey that he doesn't think I like him too much because I don't cuddle. I don't kiss. I don't hug. He basically called me a cold fish. [sarcasm]Oh wahhh. He hurt my feelings.[/sarcasm]
Tonight, we had sex. I guess in Charlie's book, we made love.
I have known Charlie since Saturday. Today is Valentine's Day. If I had a normal not so clingy boyfriend, we'd have had rough sex. Not with Charlie. We had to make love.
Is it wrong of me to feel that I should make love to someone whom I truly feel love for? Am I wrong to say that I would've preferred to have had spent today alone and sick instead of being with Charlie who tries TOO HARD to get with me?
Why can't the higher beings send me a real man instead of this pansy ass loser?
Dated recently, the post reads like this:
I don't know how to tell Charlie that I am not comfortable around him because he's so fvcking clingy. We've been dating since Saturday night.
Sunday night when he picks me up, first thing he thinks to say isn't Hi, how are you?... He comes out with,"Did you miss me?" I wanted to laugh and ask,"Scuse me, how long have we been seeing each other?"
Today is Valentine's Day. I should be thankful to have a boyfriend. I would've been even more thanful to spend it ALONE!
Charlie thinks that just because to day is VDay, we have to make love...
I was biting my tongue the whole damn time. I wanted to bark out,"Come on, Sparky!!! Where is the fire? Where is the passion?"
I have a cold. I have told him over and over again to leave me alone so I can get better so I possibly may be in a better mood and more likely to cuddle...So, he whines to our friend, Mikey. Mikey has known me since the fourth grade. Mikey knows me well enough to know that if I'm sick, bring around the action/drama/comedy, not intimacy.
He tells Mikey that he doesn't think I like him too much because I don't cuddle. I don't kiss. I don't hug. He basically called me a cold fish. [sarcasm]Oh wahhh. He hurt my feelings.[/sarcasm]
Tonight, we had sex. I guess in Charlie's book, we made love.
I have known Charlie since Saturday. Today is Valentine's Day. If I had a normal not so clingy boyfriend, we'd have had rough sex. Not with Charlie. We had to make love.
Is it wrong of me to feel that I should make love to someone whom I truly feel love for? Am I wrong to say that I would've preferred to have had spent today alone and sick instead of being with Charlie who tries TOO HARD to get with me?
Why can't the higher beings send me a real man instead of this pansy ass loser?
