So usually when I go to the club I don't approach any girls, don't even bother to dance. Just drink with some buddies and do nothing (and hate myself afterwards).
But this time I was determined to go out there and actually DO something for once lol. These girls I knew from high school who I am sorta friends with kept commenting on how good I looked and what not (I went with a different dressing style than I usually do). Anyways I danced with them on the stage and what not it was cool. What's funny is that guys I kind of knew were congratulating me saying "it took guts to go up there" "nice job" etc. even tho it didn't really seem like a big deal to me.
Decided to try my luck on the dance floor, i would just walk up to a girl and dance with her. To my surprise, almost all of them were quite receptive. One of the girls seemed to be pretty into it but a bunch of people were crashing through the crowed into her group of friends so they kind of motioned the girl to follow them somewhere else on the dance floor. Possibly trying to 'save her' or they were trying to move to a more open space. A couple girls I danced for like a few seconds...then moved away so i respected that and went for someone else.
This other guy I knew was complimenting me how I was "snipin b*tches" haha. I was surprised at how much admiration one can get for simply just goin out there tryin to pick up/dance with girls. Anyways i had a fun night...realized that you know what...hey i'm not a bad lookin guy I just gotta go out there and give it a shot. I didn't get any action or anything, but I had a really good time and I think I can build on the night I had. I'm glad I was at least a step above the guys who stand around and watch!
But this time I was determined to go out there and actually DO something for once lol. These girls I knew from high school who I am sorta friends with kept commenting on how good I looked and what not (I went with a different dressing style than I usually do). Anyways I danced with them on the stage and what not it was cool. What's funny is that guys I kind of knew were congratulating me saying "it took guts to go up there" "nice job" etc. even tho it didn't really seem like a big deal to me.
Decided to try my luck on the dance floor, i would just walk up to a girl and dance with her. To my surprise, almost all of them were quite receptive. One of the girls seemed to be pretty into it but a bunch of people were crashing through the crowed into her group of friends so they kind of motioned the girl to follow them somewhere else on the dance floor. Possibly trying to 'save her' or they were trying to move to a more open space. A couple girls I danced for like a few seconds...then moved away so i respected that and went for someone else.
This other guy I knew was complimenting me how I was "snipin b*tches" haha. I was surprised at how much admiration one can get for simply just goin out there tryin to pick up/dance with girls. Anyways i had a fun night...realized that you know what...hey i'm not a bad lookin guy I just gotta go out there and give it a shot. I didn't get any action or anything, but I had a really good time and I think I can build on the night I had. I'm glad I was at least a step above the guys who stand around and watch!