AFCs make it harder to get girls

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

DonGorgon

Master Don Juan

Oct 22, 2008

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Quit hating on people because they are happy together. What do you care if a guy is fvcking a ugly girl or a hot one? That ain't your life. Follow your own path and don't hate.

As for afc's making it hard to get women. This can be true. Which, is why this site is here to make us different and better from the rest of the pack.

^^Your isolationist logic negates the fact that in complex densly populated societies the actions of humans tend to affect the social environment and lives of other humans and the decisions they must make to progress..

NOTE: No man is an island. Cause and effect are things from which you cannot escape.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.