"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFCs have 2 major problems

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  • Small balls.
  • Laziness combined with self entitlement issues.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AFC's are trapped in a vicious cycle. Once a fag, always a fag.
They hang with the wrong people, they never change for the better, and their self-esteem stays low.
Seldom do they go on to do greater things.

Some of them realize that what they've been doing is completely wrong and they decide to learn the way of the alpha. It's a sad story; The Life of an AFC.

Nah, I was halfway kidding with that stuff I just wrote. The problem with AFC's is that they just don't get it. They don't understand the game. They don't understand why nobody likes them.

They just don't get it.
 

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amazingswayze said:
AFC's are trapped in a vicious cycle. Once a fag, always a fag.
They hang with the wrong people, they never change for the better, and their self-esteem stays low.
Seldom do they go on to do greater things.

Some of them realize that what they've been doing is completely wrong and they decide to learn the way of the alpha. It's a sad story; The Life of an AFC.

Nah, I was halfway kidding with that stuff I just wrote. The problem with AFC's is that they just don't get it. They don't understand the game. They don't understand why nobody likes them.

They just don't get it.
Haha. They understand the game and know how it works, they are to lazy and sometimes weak when it comes to action.


Ruler said:
Wrong. AFC's seek approval, just like a good little puppy.
Which point was wrong. Agree with the approval seeking behaviour. AFCs are afraid of doing what they believe is right and beneficial to themselves.

This is a deeply rooted issue which has been with me since my birth.

yannick43 said:
Why is Suspens nosense posting this, he is a AFC and a pure beta this as been proven in recent post on here.

TO be honest no you can change, honestly you can because i was once seeking approval from others and more, and i did change, i have become my own person.

You need to use frustration and be very tired of how you live your life, and use this has motivation to change.

Like i always said its possible to change, but you need to really put in the time and investment, and 99.9% are to lazy and weak to make that change to put in the time. So they spend there lives miserable and weak.
This MILF neckbeard fatty speaks truth. Repped sir.
 

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That just about sums me up several years ago. Kinda scary how on point you were with just those two points actually. If I didn't know any better, I think you'd be talking about me specifically.......
 
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