AFCs giving other AFCs pick-up advice

[n00bPimp]

The problem with this forum is that 99% of posters are nothing but guys who dont have a clue how to get women giving advise on how to get women. I can count with one hand the number of guys on here who actually practice this stuff. The rest range from guys barely dating once a month to those that are petrified at the thought of approaching a woman.
My advice: go out and sarge at least twice a week for 1 year. Do this and you will be at least a little decent with women, depending on how much you pushed yourself to approach during that time. You will never get good just by asking and giving advice.
I say this because I see guys with hundreds of posts asking rookie questions.
They know all the theory but they dont understand it. They can recite the whole m3 process but have never really applied it.
Pick up material is like a treadmill, you actually have to use it to lose the weight, having it laying around in your room and telling others about it will not do ****.

 

[sexysuave]

I agree that there are a lot of "rookie" type questions asked by members with high number of posts.

Some of this is obviously the inexperience in the field, but some of it may be also due to the fact that it is easier to point out problems in other situations and give advice then it is to follow your own or "see things clearly".

Sometimes I feel that people asking these "rookie" questions really actually KNOW the answers, and deep down know what the best move is, but just need to "get it out there" and have someone "WAKE THEM UP".

Also, I've personally done just about there is and tried everything and anything, and you're right, the BEST thing to do is get out there and actually DO IT. And keep doing it and keep plugging away. Really, ANYTHING can work once you get that confidence and the right frame of mind. You can pull "AFC type" moves if you're coming from the right place and with a bunch of confidence, and it won't even matter.

Really most of the time tips here are to give people some sense of direction. Some people literally don't know what to say in specific situations, so while they are still learning, they can get some of this down too.

However, once someone becomes really experienced, they will realize that the BETTER and BETTER you get, the LESS and LESS of "game" you will have to use. You will become more confident, more congruent, more natural with your sexual ability and more of an alpha male. You will become a leader and will literally be able to get chicks sometimes with no "game" used at all. It's amazing what people can do if their state of mind is strong enough.

So, yes, everyone, get out there and just "do it". Do NOT wait until you LEARN ENOUGH, or until the TIME IS RIGHT. As someone wisely said: "the time is NEVER right", and this is SOOOO true. Think about it, how many people wait until the "time is right" to write a book, to start working out, to ask some girl out, to start a business???? And then 10 years later they are STILL waiting for the time to be right! It NEVER will be, so just do it!!

So, everyone, please, just go out there and start approaching, start talking to girls, start asking for numbers, for dates, it doesn't matter if you don't remember ANYTHING from here yet, just slowly start encorporating it in there as you do learn some, but don't WAIT to learn it!!

Remember the NIKE slogan, and "Just do it!!"

 

[n00bPimp]

Thats right. And make the committment to stay in this for 1 year. Its a long time, but think about where would you be right now if you had started last year. Dont fall into the "its too long" mentality, time is only an illusion, right now you're the same person that you were 2, 5, 10 years ago. Sure you've been thru many circumstances, but deep inside you're still the same. You dont feel as "being in the future". time doesn't really exist! so just go out there and start the long journey now!

 

[Mr Wright]

I think its Brad P who says that you should have 2 hours in field time for every 1 hour studying this stuff. I bet about 95% of the guys on here dont do that then wonder why they arent getting any better.

 

[PokerStar]

i think that talking about it in theory is a good way to mentally prepare yourself for sarging or even socializing.

what i think that scares most people is getting rejected and the anxiety which leads to opening up a set or any girl for that matter.

the only way to get over it is to do approach as many times as possible. you will get rejected. At least rejection gets easier to swallow once you have been denied so many times.

STOP TALKING ABOUT IT AND BE ABOUT IT.

 

[The_411]

Well, part of it is that some come here to try to get an answer that suits what they want to do and they want justification for bad/incorrect behavior.

Some threads you'll see 90% of the guys telling them to bolt go NC, not call and 10% the opposite and the poster will follow the advice of the 10% because that's what they wanted to do in the first place.

Yes, theory is nice but it does nothing if not applied.

 

[Gray The Prince]

You can't save somebody that doesn't want to be saved, which is why I generally don't pass out advice like candy.

 

[Nimm]

Removed

 

[MrJibbles]

A third of the people on this forum are virgins, and another third are AFCs who have only been with one or two women their entire lives. This includes myself.

 

[n00bPimp]

A third of the people on this forum are virgins, and another third are AFCs who have only been with one or two women their entire lives. This includes myself.

Thanx for the honesty. Only those who accept their ignorance will be able to learn.

 

[Mick Chong]

I've only just joined this site, but where is all the good advice? Which threads would recommend?

I just could never seem to get the grasp of this stuff. Everyone has got different opinions, don't know what to believe.

 

[n00bPimp]

I've only just joined this site, but where is all the good advice? Which threads would recommend?

I just could never seem to get the grasp of this stuff. Everyone has got different opinions, don't know what to believe.

Best advice is on the Tips section

 

[Warrior74]

I've only just joined this site, but where is all the good advice? Which threads would recommend?

I just could never seem to get the grasp of this stuff. Everyone has got different opinions, don't know what to believe.

Read the dj bible first. All of it. If your question isn't answered there I'd be surprised.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/