"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AFC's be warned, you can't turn a wh0re into a housewife

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In our everyday lives, most of us will never have anything as extreme as the news story below happen to us. But believe that women will twist your soul in ways if you let them.

Take that old black man's advice: judge a woman by the content of her character, and not the hotness of her ass. People don't just do this kind of thing out of nowhere, the more experience with people you have the more patterns you will pick up on and you can start to sort of out the bad. Don't ever forget that as the man you need to take the lead in the relationship or she will lose respect for you and walk all over you. Most women have in them a 'dominate or be dominated' mentality. In other words they are not team-players. Be the coach, not the water boy.

McLean was 31 and had been married to Erin for 11 years when he began to suspect that she was having an affair with a student at West High School in Knoxville. From the beginning of the fall semester, he said last year, his wife talked excessively about the young man who had been given up for adoption at age 6 but who later reunited with his mother, Debra Flynn.

Initially, Powell’s name came up when Erin McLean talked about her students with her husband.

Then, McLean said, Erin began to have frequent phone conversations with her student. Later, the McLean sons — ages 11 and 7 at the time — told him that Powell had accompanied them and their mother on trips to the park and were holding hands.

“Why not leave her?” Lauer asked McLean at the time.

“I just couldn’t leave her,” McLean replied.

“Explain that. Why not?”

“ ’Cause I love her,” McLean said then, breaking down.

McLean had had hopes of becoming a high school band director, but put his own career on hold to put his wife through graduate school so she could become a teacher. He supported his family by delivering pizzas and playing in a local rock band.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This should concern the people who say "the past is in the past. Now she's not a slut anymore". One of my favorite rules is: Actions speak louder than words.
 
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Agree with the both of you and to expand on edu's point...

"Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it".

How the girl has lived her life in the past and treated men in her past and handled herself in past relationships will almost certainly be your future with her.

And never listen to any BS about her treating some past guy badly because he was a jerk or whatever as for one thing she chose that guy and is fully responsible for her bad decisions as we all are and secondly even bringing up that a guy in her past was bad or whatever is just a smoke screen by her and distraction to justify her own slvtty dishonorable behavior in paying the bad guy back by fvcking around on him with other guys.

A mature honorable woman wouldn't do that, she'd immediately end the relationship after realizing the guy she was with is scum.

Anyway though yeah bringing up a reason why she did something bad to a bad guy is only done because to the AFC mind it sounds only fair and logical but its actually fvckin twisted as its only presented to the AFC as a smoke screen distraction.

To a DJ this kind of information reveals that girl's true character.
 
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I'm Warrior74 and I approve this thread. :rockon:

I wrote a long response to this thread but it was eaten. So the short version... as a man you have to judge how far you let a woman into your life. Letting her in your bed is nothing, letting her in your life is everything. Also you are responsible for guarding your own heart, you cannot trust your heart to a woman, even if you love her, you cannot give her your heart. You can feel emotion, but you cannot let it rule you.
 
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And when it all boils down you gonna find in the end, a B**** is a B***** but a dawg is a mans best friend, so what you found a hoe that you like...you can't make a hoe a housewife.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mtlwlu said:
And when it all boils down you gonna find in the end, a B**** is a B***** but a dawg is a mans best friend, so what you found a hoe that you like...you can't make a hoe a housewife.
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Where have I heard that before?
 
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The other lesson here is that don't fvck another man's housewife, you might get shot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why is it that the guy who Fd the wife is the bad guy? Would he have Fd her if she didn't agree to it? If anybody should get the blame is the straying wife. But then again if attraction isn't a choice as they say then I guess there's no bad guy (I'm sorta being sarcastic here) Because how come women can conduct themselves well in professional settings but yet when it comes to relationships sudden some things are beyond control bla bla bla...?
 
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