"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AFCs are pulling me down.

DJ Alejandro

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i dunno guyz. im quite baffled. i can say that iv been very successful in being a DJ but here's the catch. people are actually pulling me down.

i mean, people actually talk to the girlz im interested in behind my back. sayin things like, im just gonna play her and when ive 'used her all up' just gonna leave her.

girlz actually dont wanna be friends with me anymore cuz they alwayz think i have this hidden agenda or stuff. i know im not supposed to care about what people think but i think this is getting too much for me to handle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes I've experienced the same thing myself the worst thing was this girl I was fixing at a club once (she was friend of my friend) and we were really hitting it on she got told by some stranger in the bathroom that she had to look out for herself because I was such a player and used girls. I was like WTF. That girl got told by so many people I was a player etc and she even hit me full force in the stomack and we slept together that same night ;) You just gotta be "sincere" and explain that they are just jealous and that you are "not that way" :p It's not hard at all.... It's called a white lie =)
 

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My son,

You dont realize it but these people are unwittingly helping you.

Girls live for drama and long to tame the player. Dont sweat this AT ALL. Let these fool talk, it only makes you more attractive in the end.

It sounds crazy but it is 100% true.

Also I would recommend seeking some more socially evolved friends to lift you up. Then you can gladly ditch these losers.
 

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YES, the key to being a DJ is being "socially active" - stay away from those dude friends that you once knew back in high school still wasting away in front of the tv playing playstation or killing stuff on the computer. GIRLS are NOT IMPRESSED when they know this. They don't want a guy that enjoys life idling behind a boring screen EVEN though girls do this.. they don't expect this from a man.
 

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Heh, I'm actually actively trying to make myself seem like a player, to improve my game. And it's actually not easy to seem like a player if you don't have any hot women around you all the time! But I always let it imply that when a given person can't reach me, it's cause I'm too busy seeing this or that other (imaginary) girl.

Fake it until you make it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A player is something you are and it's not really visible by how many women you have around you it's how you act towards women and generally are around women. A player can often be spotted in how he moves, dresses, looks, handles himself.
 
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