"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AFCs and DJs

ElCubanito13

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As you all know by now, there are huge differences between AFCs and DJs.
I am going to list a few but very important differences.

AFC: Meaningless words; talks alot
DJ: Very strong and powerful words; talks less frequently

AFC: Talks
DJ: Action

AFC: Reacts
DJ: Acts

AFC:"She's the prize."
DJ: "I am the prize."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I talk a lot. I know plenty of AFC's who don't talk a lot. Actually a lot of them seldom talks, and at the very least seldom talks to girls.

I talk to everyone, but when my pals are around, we're talking and laughing and joking and all that. And what's wrong with that? People are different. Some naturally talk a lot. Some naturally like to keep their mouth shut and observe instead.
 

ElCubanito13

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The Decay of Meaning said:
I talk a lot. I know plenty of AFC's who don't talk a lot. Actually a lot of them seldom talks, and at the very least seldom talks to girls.

I talk to everyone, but when my pals are around, we're talking and laughing and joking and all that. And what's wrong with that? People are different. Some naturally talk a lot. Some naturally like to keep their mouth shut and observe instead.
Well i didn't mean like that...I was talking bout talking to a girl...It reveals too many mysteries..
 
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