Afc

[Cod3r]

I think some of you are being considerate to yourselves when you call yourselves AFC's....

I used to be an AFC, but I still had a steady share of females. I know guys that sleep around, but to me they are still AFC's. My boy right now is a club promoter and has a HOT gf, but he's DEFINITELY an AFC....

AFC dosen't mean ur ugly or u don't girls... it just means you DONT GET IT...

Some of you guys are just losers or social rejects... no disrespect tho, u can always change



-Cod3r

 

[BluEyes]

Originally posted by Cod3r
it just means you DONT GET IT...

By saying "don't get it" you are referring to the ability to get girls rather than have girls fall into your lap?

Dude, an AFC has nothing to do with having a girlfriend or not. It has to do with an understanding of social dynamics. An AFC has no idea how to get girls, he/she just stumbles through life until someone falls out of the sky into their arms. A DJ is exactly the contrary; someone who understands how to get girls, and doesn't wait for 'the right person' to come along. Rather they're just out to have fun.

Give me some idea of what you are referring to by mentioning someone who GETS IT, compared to somebody who just DOESNT GET IT. Just so we're on the same page here.

 

[Cod3r]

Give me some idea of what you are referring to by mentioning someone who GETS IT, compared to somebody who just DOESNT GET IT. Just so we're on the same page here.

Of course...

I have a friend who is a bonafide AFC, meaning he has no clue how to keep or get females, but this does NOT stop him from having sex or female interactions. What i'm pointing out is that most people here say, "i'm an AFC" when in reality they are actually social rejects, they are BELOW average....

An AFC by definition is AVERAGE at best... I've seen alot of Average Frustrated Chumps lay girls that I would like to lay. My main point is that most people here aren't even AFC's, they're rejects... they are subpar...

I have a friend that gets more females than me, he looks better than me, he has contacts all over this city, but this man is ALWAYS asking me about the 'game' and how I deal with females... he just lost his girl of 5 years because he stopped buying her diamonds, kid just dosen't get it...

He's got a model right now, but he still don't get it (he's still AFC) and he'll lose her within the next 2 or 3 months. It's not about what you get or don't get, its about do you GET IT ?? Meaning, do you understand social dynamics..

I agree with you, GETTING IT = understanding social dynamics....

Most kids here understand the dynamics (at least in theory, very few with experience) but still can't achieve success... these are NOT AFC's, these are pure through and through LOSERS and SubPar Men


-Cod3r

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Someones dropping knowledge bombs... look out below

PS
haha i like how u took down the myspace lol, i love it actually


-Cod3r

 

[azanon]

The best PUA's/DJ's can be alone for years and years and years. And in that time of solitude they find themselves... and they realize that putting themselves before anyone else yield's an infinite amount of HB's throughout their whole lives.

I believe i see the point you're trying to make, but it also sounds a bit self-contradictory. Specifically, being alone "for years and years" doesn't seem to coincide with having "an infinite amount of HB's throughout their whole lives."

If you ask me, if one's approach to DJness is even coming close to yielding long-term "aloneness", then perhaps a change in strategy is in order.

 

[Jay Jay]

I don't get it...

So Cod3r, let me get this straight, your friend, who gets more chicks (currently a model) isn't as cool as you because you have READ some **** on a website? Is that what you are saying? That because you can use cliqued pick up jargon about picking up girls you are better with chicks then your mate who ****s them?

Is insulting and denigrating others what being a DJ all about? Is that what you do once you have "social intelligence" is it?

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Spoken like a true BAFC

BAFC = Below Average Frustrated Chump

I believe i see the point you're trying to make, but it also sounds a bit self-contradictory. Specifically, being alone "for years and years" doesn't seem to coincide with having "an infinite amount of HB's throughout their whole lives."

If you ask me, if one's approach to DJness is even coming close to yielding long-term "aloneness", then perhaps a change in strategy is in order.

You obviously Do NOT get it... its cool most people don't...

Don't judge me, I've fvcked girls 99% of this community would jerk off to. I've got proof and one day i'll make a little video like all the little PUA nerds so all of u guys can ohhhh and awwww over me, right now I don't need it... i'm happy being cod3r lol


-Cod3r

 

[Babnik]

Guys with super hot girlfriends are the biggest tools in the world

here's why:

They do everything in their power to keep the girl, which means sacrificing pieces of their soul. They throw their life dreams away and never self improve.

The best PUA's/DJ's can be alone for years and years and years. And in that time of solitude they find themselves... and they realize that putting themselves before anyone else yield's an infinite amount of HB's throughout their whole lives.

THIS IS THE KEY!

That is HILARIOUS. You just admitted that DJs don't get p*ssy because they are not willing to sacrifice themselves? So, a true DJ could be a virgin ALL his life if all women would statically say "We want someone who will give us a piece of his soul"

And if not true then why do DJs spend years ALONE?

 

[Babnik]

Of course...

I have a friend who is a bonafide AFC, meaning he has no clue how to keep or get females, but this does NOT stop him from having sex or female interactions. What i'm pointing out is that most people here say, "i'm an AFC" when in reality they are actually social rejects, they are BELOW average....

An AFC by definition is AVERAGE at best... I've seen alot of Average Frustrated Chumps lay girls that I would like to lay. My main point is that most people here aren't even AFC's, they're rejects... they are subpar...

I have a friend that gets more females than me, he looks better than me, he has contacts all over this city, but this man is ALWAYS asking me about the 'game' and how I deal with females... he just lost his girl of 5 years because he stopped buying her diamonds, kid just dosen't get it...

He's got a model right now, but he still don't get it (he's still AFC) and he'll lose her within the next 2 or 3 months. It's not about what you get or don't get, its about do you GET IT ?? Meaning, do you understand social dynamics..

I agree with you, GETTING IT = understanding social dynamics....

Most kids here understand the dynamics (at least in theory, very few with experience) but still can't achieve success... these are NOT AFC's, these are pure through and through LOSERS and SubPar Men


-Cod3r

He still layed hot chicks and models and you seem to be jealous of him....and I think you should call yourself SUBPAR to that guy.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Boy do you need some pvssy... lol

He still layed hot chicks and models and you seem to be jealous of him....and I think you should call yourself SUBPAR to that guy.

Talk to him and see what he says.... NYCPrince on myspace


-Cod3r

 

[azanon]

^ ^ Spoken like a true BAFC

BAFC = Below Average Frustrated Chump



You obviously Do NOT get it... its cool most people don't...

Don't judge me, I've fvcked girls 99% of this community would jerk off to. I've got proof and one day i'll make a little video like all the little PUA nerds so all of u guys can ohhhh and awwww over me, right now I don't need it... i'm happy being cod3r lol


-Cod3r

I'm guessing a little punk here that just hit puberty last year. Son, ive f*cked more women than bathroom tissue you've cu**ed on, and yes, i realize that's a hell of a lot of women.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ OK, i don't argue online... ur a pimp... u got my stamp of approval ! lol


-Cod3r

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I believe i see the point you're trying to make, but it also sounds a bit self-contradictory. Specifically, being alone "for years and years" doesn't seem to coincide with having "an infinite amount of HB's throughout their whole lives."

If you ask me, if one's approach to DJness is even coming close to yielding long-term "aloneness", then perhaps a change in strategy is in order.

He's saying that DJism is not using women as a determination of your worth. That a DJ merits being with select women of substance that goes beyond looks and that he will not sacrifice himself to lay just any woman.

 

[DarkLight]

That is HILARIOUS. You just admitted that DJs don't get p*ssy because they are not willing to sacrifice themselves? So, a true DJ could be a virgin ALL his life if all women would statically say "We want someone who will give us a piece of his soul"

And if not true then why do DJs spend years ALONE?

I can't even follow your confused perspective.
All I know is its... OFF. lol

What he's saying is... a DonJuan doesn't sacrifice his power for another person. He follows his own way. Thus... reaps the rewards of such integrity, and in today's world... uniqueness.

You can open your heart/soul to women, but you don't sacrifice yourself through doing it. You expand your world when its congruent to you. When it is NOT, you don't give yourself to it. That would be AFC supplication of your power, your truth. Your no longer aligned with yourself in such situations. Thus, it weakens you.

You w. me on all this!?

 

[azanon]

^ ^ OK, i don't argue online... ur a pimp... u got my stamp of approval ! lol


-Cod3r

Feel free to revise your opinion of me. Mine is still as stated above.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ He's confused, but he'll get there...

My door is always open... until next time, i'm out to have fun tonite... night boys


-Cod3r

 

[azanon]

He's saying that DJism is not using women as a determination of your worth. That a DJ merits being with select women of substance that goes beyond looks and that he will not sacrifice himself to lay just any woman.

That's a fine mindset to be in; I'm just speaking more generally though. If one hasn't been with a woman in years, period, then something needs to change, if you ask me. People, its not that hard or complicated, and you dont have to sell your soul, dignity and self-respect to at least eventually be with a great woman.

 

[azanon]

^ ^ He's confused, but he'll get there...

My door is always open... until next time, i'm out to have fun tonite... night boys


-Cod3r

Yeah, its well past your bedtime, and your parents are probably going to catch you with the pc on. Besides, you probably woke them up when you were moaning to the porn.

 

[DarkLight]

That's a fine mindset to be in; I'm just speaking more generally though. If one hasn't been with a woman in years, period, then something needs to change, if you ask me. People, its not that hard or complicated, and you dont have to sell your soul, dignity and self-respect to at least eventually be with a great woman.

Of course something needs to change, if you have't had pvssy in a year, and your goal is being a DonJuan. But he's not saying that. He's just saying, that even though this guy is dating a HB (Model), he still is an AFC in probably some behaivors. As in, he probably still supplicates to her, compromises when he doesn't want to, etc.

You guys aren't perpendicular in perspective here. Your parallel and just haven't looked over your shoulder to see it yet.

Peace'

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

That's a fine mindset to be in; I'm just speaking more generally though. If one hasn't been with a woman in years, period, then something needs to change, if you ask me. People, its not that hard or complicated, and you dont have to sell your soul, dignity and self-respect to at least eventually be with a great woman.

Do you know many great women? I know that they're out there but they are seldom the ones that you run into regularly.

But you did say "eventually be with a great woman." Isn't it feasible for a guy to choose to be on his own until he finds a great one instead of half stepping with a woman who's less than great?