"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFC versus DJ: Who is a real man?

Brian20o2

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We put to many labels as what is DJ and whats not. Its hard to guage really. But when you meet a true DJ you can always tell. They just give off that awesome vibe. Its hard to describe but you can feel it when your in their presence.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wiesman44 said:
I don't see how this has any bearing on the subject of the thread itself. Care to elaborate ? And why are u talking about grades ? Go to the high school forum if u wanna talk about grades.
I don't really feel like elaborating, but I will. The topic dealt with being a man, and asked a few rhetorical questions. I just gave an example of doing what you want, and not caring what others say.

I'm talking about grades because it had to do with my post, and thanks for the guidance of where to post.
 
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