"Is AFC applying for all ages, all nations? Because I'd bet we're not the same age, heh."
Yes, "AFC" is a universal cancer. We here at Sosuave are not really a self improvment site, but actually a supersecret funding organization for the ultra-top-no-talk-or-hear-about-secret organization named FTWOTDAP (free the world of the dreaded AFC plague) which will have, in a few years, in it's evil clutches all the strings of the world and then we will put ro work our final plan for which this site and FTWOTDAP was created -total, global and universal AFC holocaust!! MWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
But don't spread the word.
"let's say you've been an AFC with a girl, is there a way to pull back the strings?"
Who says you're an "AFC?" What the fyck is an "AFC" anyway? Stillwell, if you are new to this stuff, here is my 2 cents: don't try to bend yourself to the rules that this sites dictates. Don't start asking yourself, am i an "AFC?" If you want to know the truth, the asking part is enough to show that you don't have self-esteem in that part, which is a turnoff for girls. So, if you want ME to tell YOU what you WANT to hear: "Yes, Stillwell, you are an AFC!" But remember, that is still only what you wanted to hear. That is you own illusion.
And it all can be saved, yes, by using your own head. Build confidence whichever way you want. *sigh* The best way to do it is to look good in other people's eyes, which should take you to the nearest fitness studio. Or you can buy new clothes, so people will adore you because of them. Or whichever way to get anykind of attention and approval of other people.
Suit yourself ma'boy!
Good luck