AFC starting Boot Camp on my own. This is the story.

[SafariDave]

Well all, after being an AFC for so long I want to move into the rank of the RAFC and take control of my own life for a change. I have downloaded a copy of the DJBC manual and I am going to put myself through Boot Camp and see where it takes me. I will post my findings after each week here.

I can tell you right now that this scares the crap out of me. I have always been a bit frightened of women and rejection, both of which I am sure I will get intimately acquainted with during my time.

A bit about me-

I am 36 years old. I have been in several committed relationships. Obviously they were not satisifying enough to lead to marriage... at least I am smart enough to not get married if I feel I am settling for someone I am not completely happy with. I need to "update my wardrobe" I have too many t-shirts and jeans. My level of attractiveness is not "adonis-like" I feel that my looks are average. I am fit, able to run 3-6 miles without stopping. I still feel I could lose a little weight, maybe 10 pounds to boost my confidence. I am alright at conversation with someone I feel confortable with. I have a problem maintaining eye contact, I just freak out and look away.

I make good money as the head of my company's IT department. I work in Santa Monica, CA. Anyone that has ever been to Santa Monica, you know how many hot girls are around this area.

I guess what I want is to stop floating around, taking whatever random girl shows enough interest to make me feel comfortable. I want to find a girl that *I* want for once.

Any advice out there from the DJ's? Any supportive comments would also be appreciated.

Thanks,

SafariDave

 

[L777]

My No.1 piece of advice would be, just go for it.

You feel nervous,
You feel like shes too good for you,
You feel she's gonna reject you etc, etc.....regardless of this, just approach, its really hard at first, but the quicker you can get over approach anxiety, the quicker you will start getting laid.

Other than that, go to the gym if you don't already, look your best, and read Juggler method...its so much better than all the scripted BS that ppl bang on about. If you can't find Juggler method online I'll send it to ya! Good luck man!!

 

[spider_007]

you will get better responce from mature forum.....us kids arn't alowed in there.