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Master Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
AFC song?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lol, yes. And the guy I cant decide if he looks gay or just a douchebag, but the chick is hot.
But hey, don´t work yourself up over that, we all have songs we like but would never admit it in public, and anyone who says he doesn´t is a liar.
But hey, don´t work yourself up over that, we all have songs we like but would never admit it in public, and anyone who says he doesn´t is a liar.
Especially given how judgmental people get over music tastes. God(s) forbid you admit to liking something outside your "social class/niche/expectations" and all of a sudden your weird or a d-bag.Radharc said:... we all have songs we like but would never admit it in public, and anyone who says he doesn´t is a liar.
I don't know how I feel about songs that push AFC messages. I know that, while certainly not for everyone, some people are influenced by music. I've never felt that a song is "corrupting my game" but then again I'm not easily influenced by music. If you are more emotional at heart, and are easily influenced then perhaps you should avoid music that may reinforce "we'll be together forever, gushy trash." Although, tbh, if listening to an mp3 so drastically damages your outlook on women that you believe giving her flowers every day will help you get it in, you might want to look up, I hear gullible is written on your ceiling. :kick:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Music speaks directly to the emotions and to the subconscious mind, largely bypassing the rational mind. It's a direct line in which bypasses most of your logical filters.
Hence, I do believe that AFC songs like this will reinforce AFCness.
Ever notice how hard it is to memorize a few sentences of a speech, yet we can sing the lyrics to practically every song we've ever heard and liked since childhood?
Hence, I do believe that AFC songs like this will reinforce AFCness.
Ever notice how hard it is to memorize a few sentences of a speech, yet we can sing the lyrics to practically every song we've ever heard and liked since childhood?
Scars
Master Don Juan
I think if we try to push ourselves into a certain genre of music, or ignore others then we are selling ourselves short. Music is about striking a certain emotion, whether it's happiness, sadness, party mode, or what have you. We experience them all, so learn to enjoy them all. I am a very avid music listener, and I listen to everything. There is a time and place for all of them. At the end of the day, listen to what makes you happy. Not necessarily meaning only listen to happy music, but listen to what you truly enjoy, and don't give a sh!t what anyone else thinks of it. Music is personal. If you force feed your ears with only "DJ" or "playa rap" songs, you will find yourself growing tired of it fairly quickly.
-Scars
-Scars
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.