"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MacAvoy

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What are some things to watch out for so that you don't go back to your AFC / oneitis ways? I'm at the point where we are going exclusive and feelings are starting to develop. I make a conscious effort to ensure that I'm still using my DJ skills.

However I don't want to fall in the I fell in love and went AFC trap. What are some things that I can watch out for so that I ensure I'm still on my game?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joekerr31

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if she gets upset with you and you react by tryign to calm her down and appeasing her emotional outburst.

you're already in the p*ssy whipped zone at this points.

that's a clear sign that shes dropping her "best behavior" act because she senses she's got you where she wants and she's now working on figuring out just how tightly youll let her crush your balls.

you're at the stage right nwo where most guys, feeling all warm and mushy in the coccles of their heart, let a woman crush their balls and apologize for grimmacing in pain while she does it. hehe.

the only rule you ever need is this one:
Don't take chit from no one, not even the woman you love the most. And ALWAYS be prepared to walk if someone wants to bust your balls.

"All i got in this world is my word and my balls, and i don't break 'em for nobody" - scarface

that quote is all any man needs to resolve just about any issue he faces in life.

J
 

coder

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Don’t give up your personal power or she will lose respect and attraction for you. Take no shyt and give no shyt. It’s a funny dance we do with women. They will do everything in their power to break your will and control you, but they want you to not let them break you. They want you to be too strong for them to break, but they will try to break you any way they can.
 
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