“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AFC returns part II

Favourite drink? :)

  • Vodka

    Votes: 3 30.0%

  • Whiskey

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Tequila

    Votes: 4 40.0%

  • Wine

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Some other (including non alcoholic)

    Votes: 3 30.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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Duasun

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Like in the Star wars trilogy...

OK...
Let me take some breath... :)

It was a deal with some girls to make a grill and have fun tonight... But, they dumped us, (my friend and I). I was in pretty bad mood, but he insisted that we should go out and have some fun... :)

Heh... We went out, but I just couldn't cant let my self out and i couldnt felt like i have a good time (cause of dumping - stupid AFC). Anyway... It was a birthday of my close friend, so we got some vodka to drink... Hehehehe...

It was some cool music, so i feel free at last...

Anyhow, there was that 5 and 9 HB just coming in the bar. I know one of them (5), cause i gave her my number a few months ago so she can call me (she didn't call me ,cause she have no courage :), and that was ok with me). Anyway, i stood up and aproached their table. I said : Hi, can me and my friend join you and your girl friend. They said: No. I said : OK, have a nice evening and I left then.

Only a minut later i hear them calling my name : Boyan, Boyan. So, they call us to join them. We did. :)

A HB 5.0 made a place beside her where i can seat, but i decided to go for a 9... :)

I set next to her, and started a little talk. She is smart, studying a medicine (a medicine man wow). But i didn't give a sh!t about it. There was some fluff talk, and some SS patterns (Gee, thanx guys), and i felt like she have a high IL. But, she kept telling me about her girlfriend who had a crush on me. She tells me something like : She really really like you. I said, thats ok, but i don't know the girl . And i asked her > Would your friend be mad at you if u fall in love with me? She didn't answer it....

Anyway, she is really cool (a blonde, but thats ok with me), but if she tells me more about that friend of hers i feel like i'm gonna killl her. What to do next?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Knicknack

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LOLLLLL

oh man you are priceless...

first of all your poll has nothing to do with your post, but we are used to your antics by now. we forgive you.

"they dumped us"

no! you don't say. i'd have never seen a girl dumping duasun in the picture.

"It was some cool music, so i feel free at last"

i'm going to find some cool music next time i'm feeling unfree and see if it frees me. thanks.

"i gave her my number"

why would you not # close her? guys never get called back when they give out there #. it makes you look like an AFC who is afraid of rejection. instead of possibly being rejected, the AFC will give out his #.

"she didn't call me ,cause she have no courage"

or maybe it's cause she thought YOU had no courage.

"that was ok with me"

it shouldn't have been ok with you. you need to stop acting AFC and read the DJB.

"They said: No. I said : OK, have a nice evening and I left then"

best thing you did all night. that was your only DJ move. you didn't act upset and you were ok with them rejecting you. this is why they invited you back.

"a medicine man wow"

is it a girl or a guy?

"she have a high IL. But, she kept telling me about her girlfriend who had a crush on me"

red flag red flag red flag. she would not be pushing the HB5 on you if she had high IL.

"Would your friend be mad at you if u fall in love with me? She didn't answer it...."

can't imagine why she wouldn't answer that ridiculous question. you just need to relax and go with the flow. i think you are trying to DJ them a bit too much. read pook's desperation post.

"What to do next?"

read the DJB
 
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Sexy_Malibu

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Why don't you make her a ceramic polar bear bank? I've heard that works.
 
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Sexy_Malibu

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Nice. One for you and one for your friend.

Good job knickknack paddywack... way to help them out!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Duasun

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Originally posted by Knicknack


first of all your poll has nothing to do with your post, but we are used to your antics by now. we forgive you.
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LOL :)

"they dumped us"

no! you don't say. i'd have never seen a girl dumping duasun in the picture.
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Yeah. Well, it's me.... :)
"i gave her my number"

why would you not # close her? guys never get called back when they give out there #. it makes you look like an AFC who is afraid of rejection. instead of possibly being rejected, the AFC will give out his #.
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No man, i gave her my number, cause i knew that she would not call me... :)
I just wanted to get rid of her... :)

"They said: No. I said : OK, have a nice evening and I left then"

best thing you did all night. that was your only DJ move. you didn't act upset and you were ok with them rejecting you. this is why they invited you back.
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Well, al least one DJ move... It may be some improvement don't you think. At least i didn't ask them if they would like a polar bear and then said that she cannot have it... :D
Anyway, it's hard for me to write in english, but i'm trying...
 
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