Juan Don said:
thanks fellas. yeah i'm not going to contact her. it's definitely been messing up my mind. but, what if she contacts me?
This is the thing about NC. Inevitably she DOES reach out to you. If you're serious about NC, you have to make it nigh impossible. Block her # on your phone, delete her from social networks, block her email. I know it sounds extreme, but you do NC for YOUR mental health, not to prove that you're "over her" or out of some sense of one-ups-manship.
If she does get past your Maginot Line, you must ignore anyway, at least until you are honestly okay with being a platonic "friend" with her. (Note: this will happen someday in the future.) Because if you're still wondering what her intentions are, it means you still have feelings for her.
I know it seems cruel that a woman would torture you like that, but it's human nature for her to wonder if you really DID get over her that quickly. Women always come sniffing around when you ignore them long enough. They want the satisfaction of knowing you still pine for them, or, failing that, they want you to be a "friend" so that their guilt over the breakup can be soothed somewhat.
My advice is ignore, or if she persists just brush her off. "Can't talk now, have plans tonight. Will try to call you later this week." Then, of course, don't. Do what you can to avoid any kind of "talk." That leads nowhere.
