AFC=player=(sadly many don juan)=PLAIN MANIPULATORS

[just another newb??]

Although it must be said upfront, that manipulators may be somewhat successful with women, so if all you are looking for from www.sosuave.net is just a vagina to store your "vagon" then please stop reading this post right now.

I am here to state:"Yes, women do want honesty above anything else."

Now i can vizualise(sorry if not correct spelling) some of you thinking to yourself. Who da fvck is this guy... it is his first post here and he comes and tries to tell me girls want honesty. For god sakes, i know the DJ Bible by heart and this is outrageous. Please moderators close this post quik!!

This makes me sad, but what makes me even sadder is the fact that i used to be just like that. Yeah.. i am not actually new to this forum and yes, i used to spend nights learning the DJ Bible about a year ago.

This forum was a tremendeus blessing for me, but it was also a curse(more on that topic on another post). Yet i have to say that this forum is the best of all those out there.. even the programs by Mystery or DavidD or whatever else might be out there, plainly because of these uplifting posts not about chasing women but really changing YOUR WHOLE LIFE. These posts frequently written in a story telling fashion are so great because people at all different levels at their "game"(dam i hate that word) can relate to.

So I hope that some people are sharing my level(which I myself is not even aware of) and can perhaps appreciate the effort i am putting into this post and what would be greater if the smarter ones could open a new level for me by sharing their experience of going through that state.

So here it goes...
THE AFC is constantly trying to manipulate others because he is not happy with himself and constantly feels the need to suck that feeling of certanty and connection out of other people in any form (for example appriciation, acceptance, you name it).

But the worst is yet to come...when afc finds a woman.
He likes the woman and the woman is actually responding back to him. This is where THE ONE OF THE BIGGEST MANIPULATIONS ON EARTH takes place. The nice guy is trying to be,do and say everything else that he thinks he must ,but not be himself just to be or get a change with that woman. And as you all know women are far more perceptive than we are so they see the Manipulation coming way before the nice guy even opens his mouth.




Now we come to the PLAYER, oh yes the nice guy would do anything to be just like the player and fortunately(or actually unfortunately) he finds this site.

So he starts studying all these fancy tips and tricks just to look like the player and ofcourse he sells his soul in the process. Now look at that nice guy, he truly has changed, he has changed his body language and is now armed to teeth with all sorts of tactics, stories, negs and whatever sort of things to throw at women.

But at the end of the day he is still an AFC.. yes because his real improvement has only been his change in the ways of trying to MANIPULATE the women.

And for his luck many women cannot make the difference between a fake and a truly good guy so he manages to get perhaps even a lot of success depending on his level.

But he will be caught in the vicious cycle of learning more and more tips and tehniques instead of reading some of the really good pieces of advice posted on this forum.. yes this forum is the one to have set me free again :rock:





SO now is the time we should come to the truly good guy, yeah recently i have started to believe in giving to other people and taking care of people in need ( but i have to leave that for another post aswell). So what does the truly good guy do?

This is the point where i have to say " I DO NOT ENTIRELY KNOW ", and i probably never will, but i shure will keep trying to progress.

But as far as i have reached in this endless learning is that a truly good guy is a guy who is just plain honest about what he needs and wants out of life, there is no beating around the bush and chooses for himself what he should or should not do based on his understandings of the world.
He would treat girls as he would treat regular people but would be honest about his wants with her if not from the very start then soon enough atleast.
He would tease them and laugh his ass off just like he would do with his regular friends.
He would expect them to treat him as his best buddies do, and
he would give away his time to them according to that.
He would be happy one day and a little sad the other but he is being completely honest and showing that to her on every level.(Girls want to see that you are just a normal person with your problems and insecurities as well and this actually makes them open up to you. Think about it the people that really suck you into their reality are the ones who can express all sorts of emtions and make you connect with them, yes even the sad ones.)
He would let her know that she has to accept his flaws and that nobody is perfect anyway.

These are some thoughts that have been bothering my mind recently and i hope that you can learn something from this post of mine.
Some of you might not relate to this and yet some of you probably do
so feel free to give me any sort of feedback, thankyou.