Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Metro3pilot

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let one night stand borrow 50 bucks, wow guess what ? she ignores my calls and basicly blows me off.

since it cost me 50 bucks and a 6 pack of beer to hit it, cheaper than most hookers, I went to her work to see her and did not push getting the money back, for fear of getting the police called on me,

what would have been the best way to handle it, or would getting the money back, even been possible ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Metro3pilot said:
let one night stand borrow 50 bucks, wow guess what ? she ignores my calls and basicly blows me off.

since it cost me 50 bucks and a 6 pack of beer to hit it, cheaper than most hookers, I went to her work to see her and did not push getting the money back, for fear of getting the police called on me,

what would have been the best way to handle it, or would getting the money back, even been possible ?
Bro, your good dollar is gone. There is absolutely no way you can retrieve the actual money from her. What you can do however, is to try to fvck her to compensate for your lost. Going to her work place is definately not a wise idea. I'll call her one day and simply ask her out for a movie. Give her DJ talk and I'm sure the outcome of your talk with her would value more than the 50 bucks you dashed her.
 

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Hey, you only broke the $40 date rule by 10 bucks and a six pack. Try a takeaway if she's even worth it.
 
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