"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AW1983

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Someone mentioned Lois Feldman in another thread, who I hadn't heard of, so I looked it up:

http://www.desmoinesregister.com/ar...fan-says-bathroom-sex-scandal-ruined-my-life-

A Carroll woman who was caught having sex in the men's room at an Iowa Hawkeye football game in Minneapolis last weekend says she’d had so much wine before kickoff that she doesn’t remember walking into the restroom, the man she had sex with in a stall, or when the police opened the door.

Feldman said her husband, Kelly, has been supportive. She said he faults himself for not going with her when she left her seat to use the restroom before halftime.
I can't decide whether I pity or despise this chump.

EDIT:

“It’s ruined my life,” she said through tears today. “Not just the incident but the press.”
HA. It was the getting caught and subsequent press that ruined her life. If it had just been the incident alone, she'd be lying next to hubby right now, him none the wiser. Sickening.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One thing I can't stand and refuse to abide is women who can't handle their alcohol.
Who knows how many times she'd done this before if she was willing to do it this time.
Poor bastard who married her must bail immediately.
Being drunk is no excuse.
 

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Which is why I've always found women who drink heavily to be tacky and lowbrow. That applies double for women I've seen who've then posted pictures of themselves visibly inebriated at a club/bar/party on social networking sites, as if it's some badge of honor.

I'm glad my wife doesn't drink.
 

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I'm surprised the guy wasn't charged with rape.
 

SecondHalf

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She wasn't so drunk.
She walked to the washroom on her own.
I'm certain her "supportive" husband would have taken her had she even been staggering a even little.

Just a skank!

For me, this is a Hollywood story (she got caught and exposed!!!).

SH
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BPD woman, through and through. I don't know why this whole article is about her alcohol use and how that's what led her to her decision. Her inability to feel connected to her man sitting 15 yards away is the real problem, and even more so her willingness to have sex with a stranger in such exhibitionist fashion screams BPD. "I should have gone with her to the restroom?" Wow. For him to punish himself for his woman's skankery is horrible. I both pity AND despise this guy. He probably has no idea how broken his woman is and probably thinks she's a great catch. So sad.
 

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Wow! If you notice, EVERYTHING was somebody else's fault. I hate these type people!!!!!!!

“It’s ruined my life,” she said through tears today. “Not just the incident but the press.”
Yep, the press ruined your life, not your own drunk @ss actions.

She said she doesn’t remember how much she drank, but the party’s hosts refilled her glass each time it was low “so I’m sure I drank a lot.”
Do these people not realizing that they are admitting weakness by blaming others?

She said she remembers sitting in the stands one moment and the next “being slammed around by a cop and screaming.”
So she remembers before and after the embarrassing incident, but doesn't remember that ONE point in the night? Right. Don't see how anyone can believe this BS.

“He feels I was taken advantage of in my state of mind,” she said. “This is not me. We’re a very good family. This shouldn’t happen.”
When all else fails, cry rape.
 
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