Just thougt I'd share the biggest AFC mistake I have made in a long time.
My Ex calls me crying. She's having trouble with her bf. I let her vent and (like an idiot) invite her to lunch to make her feel better.
Her BF is one of the most jealous people I've ever heard of. I've never met the guy, so I've only gotten her side of that. Any way, I told her "don't tell him you saw me. Tell him you were shopping or something".
So...You got it. She told him.
Saturday morning I'm out Mt biking and she calls me. He's p!ssed and on his way to my house to beat my @ss. About 5 minutes later, he get's her phone, hits re-dial I guess, and leaves me a message. (Like I said I was riding, so I wasn't answering). So he leaves me a messsage that basically says;
"Reto, I don't know you and you don't wanna know me. Don't call Ex anymore". click...
Thing is, I don't call her. She calls me all the time. I started to call him back tell him to not let her call me, but it was her phone he called on.
Anyway, one of my buddies told me, just leave it alone. Have nothing to do with her. If you try to contact him, you'll just make things worse for you and her. And do not call her ever again. If she calls you, hang up.
What it comes down to, she used me to pi$$ off her bf.
So, lesson learned. It does not pay to try to be a nice guy.
My Ex calls me crying. She's having trouble with her bf. I let her vent and (like an idiot) invite her to lunch to make her feel better.
Her BF is one of the most jealous people I've ever heard of. I've never met the guy, so I've only gotten her side of that. Any way, I told her "don't tell him you saw me. Tell him you were shopping or something".
So...You got it. She told him.
Saturday morning I'm out Mt biking and she calls me. He's p!ssed and on his way to my house to beat my @ss. About 5 minutes later, he get's her phone, hits re-dial I guess, and leaves me a message. (Like I said I was riding, so I wasn't answering). So he leaves me a messsage that basically says;
"Reto, I don't know you and you don't wanna know me. Don't call Ex anymore". click...
Thing is, I don't call her. She calls me all the time. I started to call him back tell him to not let her call me, but it was her phone he called on.
Anyway, one of my buddies told me, just leave it alone. Have nothing to do with her. If you try to contact him, you'll just make things worse for you and her. And do not call her ever again. If she calls you, hang up.
What it comes down to, she used me to pi$$ off her bf.
So, lesson learned. It does not pay to try to be a nice guy.