I am an AFC in the LA area, I'm looking for any other AFC's or real PUA's who want to go have some fun. I just got out of a LTR and am having a hard time getting into the game. I have good looks but have a hard time with opening a set and keeping anything goin.:woo: I hope to find some cool people in my area to practice with, hit me up........
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AFC in LA
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I do make it down to San Diego every once in awhile......it's a little far, but I definantly love the women there......Originally posted by Inc. ©
I'm in SD if you are willing to travel a bit.
Sup guys?Im neither from LA nor from SD, but I plan on going there either next year or in 2007 (only if I cant save up enough money, because Im already going on a vacation this winter..am about to move out etc.)..anyways I was wondering how the chicks and well people in general were in both LA and SD.
Is it true that most people from L.A. are more well..full of themselves than in other cities (Im not saying its like that ive just been told..)? I've heard ppl say this was only true for the hollywood area and the people who wanna be involved in the entertainment industry, but a lot more ppl have said that it was the general attitude in L.A... Is this really true or doy ou think L.A. is a place like any other big city people-wise?
Plus..I think S.D. might be a good option, too (maybe even the better one), but I really have a thing for like the tan south american woman type with black hair..and black/mixed chicks, but when I take a look at party photos (there are sites on the web..) from S.D. I can hardly spot a black person at all lol. I thought this might be different in L.A. ...or is it just that I was probably looking at the wrong clubs in S.D.?
Is it true that most people from L.A. are more well..full of themselves than in other cities (Im not saying its like that ive just been told..)? I've heard ppl say this was only true for the hollywood area and the people who wanna be involved in the entertainment industry, but a lot more ppl have said that it was the general attitude in L.A... Is this really true or doy ou think L.A. is a place like any other big city people-wise?
Plus..I think S.D. might be a good option, too (maybe even the better one), but I really have a thing for like the tan south american woman type with black hair..and black/mixed chicks, but when I take a look at party photos (there are sites on the web..) from S.D. I can hardly spot a black person at all lol. I thought this might be different in L.A. ...or is it just that I was probably looking at the wrong clubs in S.D.?
I think it is partially true that people in LA are "full of themselves" there are alot of cool people also...but you have to get through the layers.........People in SD are probably more friendly, you would probably have a better chance of meeting women there, although, if you are looking for the darker type theres a better ratio of that in LA........
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
josue520
Don Juan
whats up fellas, im from the la area as well. I have been in the game for about 10 months now, i am still in the early ages of becoming a pua, but i can pretty much open sets up on a consistant basis. im looking for guys to hook up for bars and clubs. if you guys are interested drop me a pm. latez
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Check out the P-L-A-Y list on Yahoo! Lots of wings there in the LA area.
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