"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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Do you guys actually look back to the girls you were AFC with.

If u feel like your totally ready to get her in bed now, do u look back or just forget the girls from your past?

I feel like theres something to win, im 100% sure if i were the guy i am know it would be all good but i wasn't back then.. how do u guys experience this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt

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There is one girl I went to high school with who liked me quite a bit. And I annihilated those feelings with an A-bomb of AFCness. I was like Forrest Gump:

Jen-nay! Why are you running away Jenn-nay? I love you Jen-nay!

That was fifteen years ago, and she is still weird about talking to me.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
There is one girl I went to high school with who liked me quite a bit. And I annihilated those feelings with an A-bomb of AFCness. I was like Forrest Gump:

Jen-nay! Why are you running away Jenn-nay? I love you Jen-nay!

That was fifteen years ago, and she is still weird about talking to me.
Right after my LTR ended, I reconnected with my high school crush - coincidentally named Jenny.

She told me about her past troubles and what she did to get over her ex, rebounds, splurging, riding the carousel, etc. I didn't care, I wanted to be with her. She even told me that I wouldn't be happy with her and she didn't deserve me. Last I heard, she was becoming a dancer.

Why don't you love me Jen-nay?
I'm not a smot man but I know what love is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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