TheGambino
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AFC history miracles are possible.. You won't believe this!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dustmuffin
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Go for it!
Harry Wilmington
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Waste of time. BIG waste of time. You want to bang a girl that's still in a relationship with another guy so you can... what, prove to yourself that you can do it? How would YOU feel if she was already your GF and going behind your back to bang another dude who was gaming her to just f--k and flee? Have some dignity about yourself, man! I'm all for doing what you have to do in order to get a lay, but GEEZ - you're focusing on a girl from almost EIGHT YEARS AGO when you could be focusing on NEW girls who are AVAILABLE and would happily hook up with you if you did the right stuff.
TheGambino
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News? No we made an appointment so we spin more plates in the meantime, Harry I always respect youre advice and knowledge. But I'm going to have fun with this broad out of principe. Big history with this chick + I knew her way before that guy anyway, and boy I know this girl is a freak in bed I can see it in her eyes, only lust.
I don't have problems with what i'm about to do, if my girl would f8ck around I won't feel any anger towards the guy. I'll drop her period and move on.
I don't have problems with what i'm about to do, if my girl would f8ck around I won't feel any anger towards the guy. I'll drop her period and move on.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Reservoir Dog
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This might have packed more punch if you'd written it after you'd banged this girl. Anyone want to lay bets that she flakes on OP at the eleventh hour? But seriously, hope it works out for you.
TheGambino
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Alright threads closed lol. Let's see what happens first i'll update