"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aight so here's the sit. I got a friend that is having some very tough issue, he got a girl that he doesnt like but this girl got some benefits 2 him in a
certain financial way. But nways he is hurting himself and getting drunk and etc. because he does not want to hurt this girls feelings and does not know what to do. I tell him to leave the ***** after getting the benefits.
Would really appreciate some advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He has a chick he doesn't really care for who he's duping out of money and then feeling bad because he can't break from her or from her purse?

You're a great friend for pushing him to keep using this girl as an atm machine.

Get some sac and do the right thing.

Both of you.
 
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Ye just pathetic, this kid needs 2 make up his mind and know that the world aint gonna end and that there are plenty of fish in the bowl... Just saddens me 2 c people like this that have so much FCing POTENTIAL just stuck in an insomnia...
 
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He feels he owes her something since she's aiding him financially and he lets himself get deeper into it. He feels trapped.

What he can do, is slowly walk out of it. Become financially independent from her and return her the favor equal too or slightly above. He'll stop feeling trapped about it. Unless the financial aid that he is getting his really dependent on, then its just worse and harder to get out of.

The quick and dirty solution is obviously to walk away, i mean run! He'll look like the bad guy for a while, but he'll be released from the trap he believes his in.
 
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ZenGodMod said:
He feels he owes her something since she's aiding him financially and he lets himself get deeper into it. He feels trapped.

What he can do, is slowly walk out of it. Become financially independent from her and return her the favor equal too or slightly above. He'll stop feeling trapped about it. Unless the financial aid that he is getting his really dependent on, then its just worse and harder to get out of.

The quick and dirty solution is obviously to walk away, i mean run! He'll look like the bad guy for a while, but he'll be released from the trap he believes his in.
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Exactly bruh, thas the advice i should tell him... best thing would be for him 2 walk away probably, kinda stupid for him 2 get into the sit in the 1st place but oh well thas how you learn right
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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