"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aight so here's the sit. I got a friend that is having some very tough issue, he got a girl that he doesnt like but this girl got some benefits 2 him in a
certain financial way. But nways he is hurting himself and getting drunk and etc. because he does not want to hurt this girls feelings and does not know what to do. I tell him to leave the ***** after getting the benefits.
Would really appreciate some advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He has a chick he doesn't really care for who he's duping out of money and then feeling bad because he can't break from her or from her purse?

You're a great friend for pushing him to keep using this girl as an atm machine.

Get some sac and do the right thing.

Both of you.
 
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Ye just pathetic, this kid needs 2 make up his mind and know that the world aint gonna end and that there are plenty of fish in the bowl... Just saddens me 2 c people like this that have so much FCing POTENTIAL just stuck in an insomnia...
 
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He feels he owes her something since she's aiding him financially and he lets himself get deeper into it. He feels trapped.

What he can do, is slowly walk out of it. Become financially independent from her and return her the favor equal too or slightly above. He'll stop feeling trapped about it. Unless the financial aid that he is getting his really dependent on, then its just worse and harder to get out of.

The quick and dirty solution is obviously to walk away, i mean run! He'll look like the bad guy for a while, but he'll be released from the trap he believes his in.
 
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ZenGodMod said:
He feels he owes her something since she's aiding him financially and he lets himself get deeper into it. He feels trapped.

What he can do, is slowly walk out of it. Become financially independent from her and return her the favor equal too or slightly above. He'll stop feeling trapped about it. Unless the financial aid that he is getting his really dependent on, then its just worse and harder to get out of.

The quick and dirty solution is obviously to walk away, i mean run! He'll look like the bad guy for a while, but he'll be released from the trap he believes his in.
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Exactly bruh, thas the advice i should tell him... best thing would be for him 2 walk away probably, kinda stupid for him 2 get into the sit in the 1st place but oh well thas how you learn right
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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