"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC friend getting married to fat ugly girlfriend..

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Money is not an issue, my friend haves a lot of it, and he makes over 100 k a year.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon said:
marriage is obsolete.. like religion..
Neither is obsolete

nor is marriage a product of religion

Learn about other cultures ways of doing it then see if most of it is Christian based
 

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Ganondorf said:
Neither is obsolete

nor is marriage a product of religion

Learn about other cultures ways of doing it then see if most of it is Christian based
social concepts like marriage do not do well in capitalist societies. all the excessive competotions renders people unable to trust enough to come together. and selfishness permiates the everage mind.. woman are in the wprkplace competeing directly with men and that does not help the situation at all
 

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Fat or skinny-doesn't really matter,all you need to do is look at the average married 40 yr old woman. Never having another woman? May actually act in his benefit- after you are used to watching a different movie every week, are you going to want to watch the same one for the rest of your life?[my kids did when they were little] Ignoraance is bliss. He won't be comparing every sexual act with every girlfriend/FB he's ever had.

The real issues are: is she a quality woman[other than looks]?,Is he going to be happy never having had another woman? You can ask him,but then you'll have to let him do it.
 

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Ugh, my childhood friend and college roommate did this too.

He and his future hippo bride "took a break" at one point our junior year. He was a total AFC, and I was in my PUA prime. I started introducing him to every girl I could. Just as he was starting to find his feet (or ****) and date/flirt like a normal person the hippo sensed that she was in danger of losing him and suggested they get back together. Then got married 18 months later. Oh and she ****ed some 100lb indian chubby chaser while they were apart. Seriously she's like 5'4" 200lbs.

I got really drunk at the wedding.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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