AFC feeling returning .. HELP!!!!!!!

[Thomas94305]

Guys,

Last summer, I went through the boot camp, and it changed things drastically. I wasn't up to the 10 numbers a week status that some of the guys here claim. But, one number a week was minimal, and I've had 4 numbers a week happen.

Now, it's been about 2 months, no numbers. I go salsa dancing. I go to coffee shops. I'm not getting interest when I strike up conversations. The women give polite disinterest.

It's turning into a self fulfilling negative prophecy, since I feel down and the down vibe then turns off women, which makes me feel down..etc. I'll shake it, but only for brief periods. My inner game is off.

I don't want to return to AFC status, I was starting to pull out of that and seeing a real difference. I know there's ups and downs to life and being a man. But, am having problems pulling out of this. What are your helps to shake the funk?

Tom

 

[Vulpine]

Slumpbreaker time.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=92390

:kick:

 

[jigga23]

How old are you? Do you want a good looking chick or does it matter? Just want a goodie two shoes?

The bottom line is if you want hot chicks then you got to build yourself up first. Go to the gym work out get big, dress good, if you got a job buy something nice to go with yourself. When you go out dont be that guy that goes up to them and chases them cause you got to know exactly what to say. Walk around and act like you dont even notice them act like you have a barrier up and youre too good for anyone. Girls can sense that stuff. Then either if you see them again and talk to them theyll probably say oh i thought you were a d1ck. Then just be cool and flirty with them go with the flow. Honestly unless youre like brad pitt chasing/approaching a girl wont work youll end up working more. Girls like a challenge and they like to chase. If you do decide to go up to them just say "he y i just wanted to tell you are cute or whatever and I just wanted to introduce myself. Then just say thanks walk away. Dont try to number close or anything then when you see them again its an easy in. The bottom line is dont try to hard meaning with approaching and getting their number make them work. But try hard to make yourself better go to the gym buy nice things for yourself etc. Ive never really won chasing any girl. Every girl either says im hot or cute or whatever i drive a nice car but when i chase it doesnt work. I walk into a club or place act like im too good for people i even know i people i see around a lot. They then come up and approach me. From there you get to pick and chose which one you want. Dont act like a desperate boner chicks get turned off by that. Chasing=desperate
Not chasing=not desperate=turned on girl.