"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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afc errors out of your control

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i sent this HB a text yesterday informing her my plans tonight had been rearranged to wednesday so i could see her tonight but if not she should let me know about tuesday which was prearranged.

it got sent twice in succession about 45mins apart, this sort of thing is likely to make her respond in a full on approach like oh no he's texted me again.. when it was just a mistake.

to correct this do i have to wait a few more days before i recontact?

she's so difficult i don't know how i can arrange a time cos every cancellation and non commital from her makes me look more and more desperate even tho i know she's interested.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trd323

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usually if a girl flakes on you she will suggest another time.
 
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Trd I'm a little confused by your comment are you saying that if she's not interested she will still suggest another time or only if she is interested, from personal experience it's when they don't that they aren't interested
 
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sorry.

Usually if she is interested, and flakes she will offer another time to meet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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