"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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afc errors out of your control

pete101

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i sent this HB a text yesterday informing her my plans tonight had been rearranged to wednesday so i could see her tonight but if not she should let me know about tuesday which was prearranged.

it got sent twice in succession about 45mins apart, this sort of thing is likely to make her respond in a full on approach like oh no he's texted me again.. when it was just a mistake.

to correct this do i have to wait a few more days before i recontact?

she's so difficult i don't know how i can arrange a time cos every cancellation and non commital from her makes me look more and more desperate even tho i know she's interested.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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trd323

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usually if a girl flakes on you she will suggest another time.
 

hondo928

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Trd I'm a little confused by your comment are you saying that if she's not interested she will still suggest another time or only if she is interested, from personal experience it's when they don't that they aren't interested
 

trd323

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sorry.

Usually if she is interested, and flakes she will offer another time to meet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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