"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AFC Days

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Clarky

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What's the most AFC thing that you did for a girl looking back?

Mine was not being assertive and giving out tooo many compliments.

I can remember a girl asking me to comment on her pictures on her website and thinking to myself 'Hmmmm...all these guys are calling her 'fit and hot' if i say that she looks 'beautiful' and 'stunning' then she will see me differently :D ' WRONG haha :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bussey

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Lol I had a date with a girl in early highschool that I had a huge thing for. I paid for everything, I barely ate anything which definitely weirded her out, gave her tons of compliments, tried to make plans in the middle of the date for another.

It was a total crash! Blew it major.. She didn't return my calls... so I started calling more and emailing her. Till I found out a close friend of mine had ****ed her 2 days after our date.

I regressed into a hermit for a while, and that's when I started to find this stuff. Haven't looked back since.



Sidenote: I went back to my hometown to visit my parents and I saw her at the mall about 4 weeks ago. Though what I used to think was a 9 had now turned into a 7. I flirted a bit (I do with all women haha) and she gave me her number without me asking. I walked away and that closed that chapter completely. In the end I had won. :p
 
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mine was probably giving too many compliments, being needy / clingy which ended with me losing somebody i deeply cared for... i saw that it was all my fault, went and found this place, got better.. much better :) and never looked back.

sucks how everything seems to work in reverse with women... :moon:
 
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