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Well as above^^^ my cousing has a girlfriend that is a golddiger like that Kayne West song. Hes preety stupid his bank account is being drained by her. I found this out yesterday about how my cousin's GF from my mom. LOL We were working and she told me how her GF has him whipped like a little dog. She told me that he buys everything for her. She told me that he buy her the dress, the shoes even that panties all brand new when they go to a party. Now that I look back at what she wore Im like "dam my cousin RiCH" LOL. Hes blinded "OH I LOVE HER" BULL**** They have been going out for 3 years, since high school. Its going to be hard to wake up his eyes, but who likes a good challenge anyways. Help guys .
 

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Ohhhhhhhhh man this is close to impossible. This girl has got him hooked. Nothing you say will make him change his mind. I suggest:

-Planting a used condom in his car or an article of men’s clothing (if she drives it)

-Get guys to start calling his place asking to speak to her

-Outright lie and say you saw her with some guy.

-Send flowers for her to his house. From anyone just make up a name. (again if she lives with him)

It pretty obvious what I am getting at. This is your only option as I see it. You can’t talk him out of it there is no way he will listen. When one of these *****es has got a guy wrapped around her finger hel stab his own mother in the back for her.

Ninja out
 
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LOL i know. Her MOM even knows about how she golddigs him. And they do not live together so the condom and flower thing won't work.
 
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Well for the first time in ages i got no idea what you should do. Short of hiring a private investigator and hoping to God shes cheating.

Ninja out
 
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kulowiper, or should i say ASSWIPE stop PMING ME to "hump a chicken nugget"




- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
kulowiper, or should i say ASSWIPE stop PMING ME to "hump a chicken nugget"




- Smooth Player 056 -
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Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
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Wtf lol i just noticed that his nick is ASSWIPE. Whys he telling you to "hump a chicken nugget"?
 
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I think I have to mostly agree with black italian..

I really don't know what to do about this situation...

I remember when i first was in love... I can still remember that same girl 10 years ago.. and im only 22... :rolleyes:

I think the first step is realizing he has a problem..

when he realizes it, he then has to understand and ask himself where do you think this girl will be 10-15 years from now. I don't think with you...

he has to understand that money is the root of all evil and that this girl is what she doin to him.
 
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Originally posted by bbestar
I think I have to mostly agree with black italian..

I really don't know what to do about this situation...

I remember when i first was in love... I can still remember that same girl 10 years ago.. and im only 22... :rolleyes:

I think the first step is realizing he has a problem..

when he realizes it, he then has to understand and ask himself where do you think this girl will be 10-15 years from now. I don't think with you...

he has to understand that money is the root of all evil and that this girl is what she doin to him.
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I belive the actual quote is "a mans love for money is to root of all evil". I could be wrong.

Ninja out
 
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I agree with Black_Italian's strategy. With guys like your cousin any reason you try to give they will denied it. You're gonna have to play dirty if you want to smack some sense into him. But it's gonna be hard to change someone's perception.

If I were you I would just let your cousin learn his lesson the hard way because that is the only way some people learn.
 
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Not much you can do. Just kick back and learn what NOT to do.
 
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Originally posted by theSpeculator
If I were you I would just let your cousin learn his lesson the hard way because that is the only way some people learn.
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I belive the actual quote is "a mans love for money is to root of all evil". I could be wrong.

Ninja out
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Actually the quote is:

The love of money is the root of all evil


If I were you, let him learn she will make him broke as hell and then he will learn his lesson, however, introduce him to sosuave, and maybe he can get her where he wants her
 
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Originally posted by theSpeculator
I agree with Black_Italian's strategy. With guys like your cousin any reason you try to give they will denied it. You're gonna have to play dirty if you want to smack some sense into him. But it's gonna be hard to change someone's perception.

If I were you I would just let your cousin learn his lesson the hard way because that is the only way some people learn.
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All right then ill just have to kick back and make him learn his leasson the hard way and when I think he learned his lesson its ima inteoduce him to SoSuave.com so he wont comit the same mistake. Even how do golddigers work like their mindstate like how they can get a guy to buy her a lot of stuff?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Introduce him to SoSuave.com.
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I was going to say this. Show him how he is being a AFC, and how important it is to stop. If he doesn't listen set your get ready to say "I told ya so..." in about a week.:p
 
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you can only help people who want to b ehelped....;

He thinks he is love. He will be hurt one day, and you will be there to show him his wrongdoings...


Until then, it's not much you can do, he isn't going to listen to you know because he has it "all figured out"
 
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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
Introduce him to SoSuave.com.
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I disagree with this. If you introduce him to SoSuave.com, he will laugh at you for going here. And if he's a punk, he will tell other people you go here and then everyone will be laughing at you.

Only tell people you can trust and is open-minded about this site.
 
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Exactly. I tried to introduce a few of my AFC friends to this site and all they did was laugh at me.
 
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UPDATE: Heres an update for you guys.
My cousin finally broke up with her goldigging GF for good. That is what he told everybody. My cousin seems to be depressed because they have been going out for 5 years on and off. Now I alrady typed him a Text Messege that goes like this: Don't commit suicide cuz your girl left you, commit yoursefl to Don Juanism at SoSuave.com and visit the forums section to become a MAN!!!!!!!!. LOL. I am going to try to introduce him to the pimpimg game some way or another.
 
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