alpha_ash
Senior Don Juan
Hey guys,
So one of the girls I met recently is very much like an AW or possibly AFC. I've been trying to put her in my friendzone and have been successful so far because she has a large number of HOT girl friends!
One thing that bothers me about her is that either she is AW or AFC. She told me her last boyfriend chased after her like he loved her before she got into a relationship with him, he would text her to ask her if she got home okay, did nice things, all the AFC BS, etc. When he couldn't spend enough time with her, she broke it off, and was constantly missing him until he re-initiated contact with her, and in the mean time she didn't go after another ****.
When we go to clubs with her girlfriends, she doesn't dance with any guys she doesn't know, won't grind AT ALL, but doesn't mind talking to one or two guys, and doesn't mind giving out her number occasionally. However, I know for a fact that she isn't banging any of those guys or meeting up with them because she is with her girlfriends every weekend/weeknight.
I think she is attractive obviously and I like her, but there's no way I want a relationship with her right now because she is serving a greater purpose. Last night we went out and she brought 3 of her girlfriends to dance with me. Granted one was mediocre, the other two were smoking, and people were staring at me while I was grinding with 3 girls and dancing with 4 at once hahah! and when we were chilling outside, I had a girl in my left arm and another sitting in my lap, which guys were coming up and trying to talk to one or both of them. ****ing scavengers LOL.
The main reason I'm asking is because I'm curious and its hard to spot a girl like her in a club crowd. In fact, this is the sort of girl that I would want to be in a relationship with. Isn't that what we all want?
Any insight is appreciated. Thanks.
EDIT: I forgot to mention that she is hard to read, but I have noticed that she does little things that give off a vibe that she is trying to make me feel jealous. I don't know why she would do that because I actually push her to go talk to other guys instead of just dancing by herself or with me.
So one of the girls I met recently is very much like an AW or possibly AFC. I've been trying to put her in my friendzone and have been successful so far because she has a large number of HOT girl friends!
One thing that bothers me about her is that either she is AW or AFC. She told me her last boyfriend chased after her like he loved her before she got into a relationship with him, he would text her to ask her if she got home okay, did nice things, all the AFC BS, etc. When he couldn't spend enough time with her, she broke it off, and was constantly missing him until he re-initiated contact with her, and in the mean time she didn't go after another ****.
When we go to clubs with her girlfriends, she doesn't dance with any guys she doesn't know, won't grind AT ALL, but doesn't mind talking to one or two guys, and doesn't mind giving out her number occasionally. However, I know for a fact that she isn't banging any of those guys or meeting up with them because she is with her girlfriends every weekend/weeknight.
I think she is attractive obviously and I like her, but there's no way I want a relationship with her right now because she is serving a greater purpose. Last night we went out and she brought 3 of her girlfriends to dance with me. Granted one was mediocre, the other two were smoking, and people were staring at me while I was grinding with 3 girls and dancing with 4 at once hahah! and when we were chilling outside, I had a girl in my left arm and another sitting in my lap, which guys were coming up and trying to talk to one or both of them. ****ing scavengers LOL.
The main reason I'm asking is because I'm curious and its hard to spot a girl like her in a club crowd. In fact, this is the sort of girl that I would want to be in a relationship with. Isn't that what we all want?
Any insight is appreciated. Thanks.
EDIT: I forgot to mention that she is hard to read, but I have noticed that she does little things that give off a vibe that she is trying to make me feel jealous. I don't know why she would do that because I actually push her to go talk to other guys instead of just dancing by herself or with me.
then at the end of the night when she was being dropped off, she reached to me and kept asking me if I want a girlfriend or a boyfriend, or relationship with a guy or girl, implying that I'm gay because I wasn't like other idiots who kept hovering around her. I told her I don't want a relationship with either right now.