"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hitikiro

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Hey Guys:

First post here :wave: . I have been lurking around the forums for awhile now and I am reading the DJ bible at the moment. I would be considered an AFC by definition, but anyways let me get straight to the point. I was at the super market early tonight and I was browsing in the snack aisle where all the cereal and bread resides. All of a sudden I hear a thump. I turn around and I see a loaf of bread on the floor and this HB 8.5 standing right next too me. I then started to chuckle at her clumsiness and she started to giggle as well. Unfortunately I did not say anything afterwards :kick: . These two guys behind me kept snickering and checking out this HB 8.5. A brief moment later she walks by me and I somewhat follow her to the cashier I jump in line right behind her but then totally forgot that I needed milk for my cereal! I quickly went to get some milk and the next thing you know she is gone. I decided in my mind that I would introduce myself so I went around the store for a bit again until I spotted her at the cashier tilt again. I was heading towards her direction but detoured and bailed! It seems to me that my confidence is lacking. I played the scenario in my head a few times through thinking "Wouldn't it be weird to just pop up again and introduce yourself?" I know there is a time frame to introduce yourself (3-10 seconds once you have established eye contact) or am I just incorrect about that? Anyways, I would like to know how to improve my confidence so I don't freeze up again. Comments and criticisms are welcomed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MascaraSnake

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Don't introduce yourself. In that situation, I would have swooped in and said something like "Are you sure everything's in your cart? You might have dropped some stuff back there..." or something to jab at her about dropping the bread.

Since she was in line, though, I'm pretty sure it would have been difficult to get a spontaneous conversation out of that.
 

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Tip to build confidence

O man. I remember those days, freezing up to the site of a Sexy, Beautiful girl to the problem of not knowing what to say and how to say it, thinking of what to say but not saying it on time. I regreted not taking those opportunities, or missing out on them. ****, reading your post makes me feel like it was just yesterday. Anyway, let tell you what I did to boost my confidence:

Every morning, right before waking (when my subscon mind was still relaxed) I repeated (for 20 minutes straight) the following words:

"I can have ANY girl I want If I wanted her."

The affirmation is deisgned to "reprogram or condition" my mind so get me to believe that I can for sure have ANY ****ing girl I want. Why are rockstars so damn confident? How are they able to draw women in as if they were a popular prada handbag all girls wanted?

Becuase they're so damn confident. They just KNOW (with complete certainty) that they can have whoever they want, when they want. If you follow my suggestion, you'll also feel the same way.

I did it for about three weeks, but I saw results instantly
 

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As soon as any guy gets that "waaaaaw" when they see a girl its over man, they will talk to them in such a different way than if you think "you" are the prize which is what she wants, if she gets the scent that you are in awe of her you arent good enough in her eyes... Work on yourself man search for the book of pook, its a classic read really changes the way you look at yourself.. Be the prize.. Forget all the 3-10 seconds nonsense if you're nervous before think how nervous you will be actually talking to her plus all the endless scripted lines you will be trying to remember.. Anyone can change their mindset so that they appear more confident in that moment, but its a false economy they will find you out, you arent that cool!!! YET!!

I think you should have said hi to her, if you wanted to be ****y and funny you would have, but it would have been cos that's how you think you can pull this babe.. You have to absorb all the personalities all the triats of a fun guy and be that guy instead of acting like that guy..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i always read from the book of pook when i need a jolt of confidence, google it:up:
 
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