"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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advize please!!

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So I gave him until today really to let me know he was done with her. Im pretty much 100% sure he's not...and now I want to fire off a "you are an unbelievable piece of sh!t. You better hope I never run into her because you can bet I will tell her. And you can also bet a months rent you will never hear from me again."

Bad idea???

yes, I have had a few....talk some sense into me! UGH, I HATE HIM.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your being a monumental loser, I dont know why this continuing bollocks drama between you and this douchebag is not locked.

SunnyD said:
You better hope I never run into her because you can bet I will tell her.
:rolleyes: Thats it, why not fvck up some other lives while you wallow in your self made oneitis misery.
 

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Screw you. Im the same as anyone else here jackass. Just because I dont have balls...
 

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SunnyD said:
Screw you. Im the same as anyone else here jackass. Just because I dont have balls...
Dont be trying that sh!t on either, the only reason this continuing crap is not being laughed off the board and your not being bombarded in flames is because you dont have balls.

Did you actually want realistic advice or are you just being a fvckin idiot using this place to sound off for the sake of it?

Pull your head in.
 

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i actually want advice. Is that ok with you???????? What difference does it make if this is being asked by a guy or girl???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SunnyD said:
i actually want advice. Is that ok with you???????? What difference does it make if this is being asked by a guy or girl???
Are you serious ? I just basically summed up YOUR (hint) problem, what the hell else are you looking for. And why do you keep bringing your gender into the equation, this is not going to help your cause.
 

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Wow. I don't know if it's the liquor but if not, I thought you were smarter than this

1.) Ultimatums are the ultimate expressions of powerlessness, empty threats designed to try to influence a situation someone has no control over.
2.) Don't pull the gender card. You are acting like an Angry Frustrated Chump and posters are addressing you as such
3.) You are being a spiteful woman. You don't seem to understand that no man is going to want to be with you coz you threaten him. Are you fvcking serious with that dumb sh!t?
4.) Move on. Girls like you are the reason guys lie. He tells you what he wants up front (not a relationship) and then you try and force him to drop his plates. Get a life
 

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Yes it was the liquor and I apolgize. I should clarify though, that I never threatned him. He didn't KNOW I was giving him until today to call things off with her. He told me himself (I didnt ask) that he was going to last week..so I thought to myself that I'd give him time to do that and go from there, and if he didnt...for my own good...I would cease contact.

Trust me, I may freak out on here...but I haven't to him. As for pulling the gender card...I assumed that (.)(.) was calling me a drama queen and I took that personally.
 

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Here is your advice.

Not like you use it, or anything.

I really think you may have to be nominated for AFC of the year award, because I don't know of one AFC on here who has started as many threads about the SAME guy/situation! They atleast have enough pride to either move on or keep it to themselves, that they refuse to let go of a dumb b!tch!

What is really going on. I am surprised anyone besides tits replied to this thread at all. He said it plain and simple and true.

MF was being kind.
 
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