"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Justaguy

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I got hooked up with this girl through an old family friend.
We've never met face to face, I have no idea what she looks like yet.
We've emailed each other for three days back and forth... small talk. She likes my facetious humor.

I called her on day 2 after the email thing got to dumb for me. I told her to call me after she got out of work and we'd go out for drinks. She agreed. I gave her my phone number.

Next day she didn't call so I called her, no answer.
I left her a message.

Shes been emailing me today telling me she went home to take a nap and what a flake she feels like

I told her it's no big deal.

Her email:you think that I am the biggest flake in the world? I
would.....

I told her that I was no pushover and I don't like flakes.

still waiting for a response.........


Input fellas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Simple, demand concessions. Like NK did to the US - be firm and get her groveling. It'll work.
 
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tmpgstx

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Concessions basically means counter offers. In other words, if you ignore enough right now and use her guilt against her (lol .. not in a bad way, but in a good way, right?), she will ask you to do something and try making it up to you. It's what women do to guys all the time. If you turn it around, will drive her crazy.
 
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Response from a female:

She was apprehensive of what you might think of her and wasn't sure if it was the right time to meet. She didn't know what to say or couldn't find an excuse that's why she didn't answer your call. Lol you told her that you don't like flakes, she is now embarassed and a little annoyed at you but mostly her for not calling you in the first place.

Call and leave her a message (if she doesn't pick up) letting her know to reschedule for another meet.

Good luck!


Meg
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't listent to tmpgstx, if you do this she will loose interest and find someone else who will pursue her. His method will not work since the girl has never met you.
 
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My advice would be to get pictures of the person first and foremost if you insist on using the internet to talk to women.
 
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