"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BxPrince24

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Ok, so I was bored out my mind yesterday n decided to talk to a girl that i've had some history with, good/bad. We were talking over the net, n i believe what i was sayin was good cause she wanted to come n chill with me but she couldn't because she told her mom she was sick because she didn't feel like goin to school. So I was like, oh well. today u miss out.

Today, during another boring period, i go to talk to her again. this time, things didn't flow so smooth as yesterday. I started out saying, what she was up to, then I asked her if she wasn't goin out tonight, she said she's goin out tomorrow to chill with a friend, i was like sounds like an orgy to me, she was like uhh... ok. (obviously it wasn't as funny as i thought it would be but i was stumbling with coming up with a funny response.) either way, i had to leave, i went out with my friends to the movies so i ended the convo there.

I spoke to my older cuz about it, he's a true Don Juan. He was like I should just cut the bull**** and be straight forward with her. Be like, do you wanna fvck or not? as direct as possible. According to him, if i keep softening sh*t up, she's not gonna see that there was a change and she might revert to the old bullsh*t that she did before. But even tho that sounds great to me, if i'm to be direct like that, isn't her answer obviously gonna be no?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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obviously not.

she'll probably like the fact that you took hold of your balls and stuck yourself out there. Maybe she's been waiting for just that, hmm?

always worth a shot.
 

BxPrince24

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maybe so.. tomorrow if she's online i'll come out at her like that. If she blows over, i really don't care. I was talking to her because i was bored anyway. but if i can get in them jeans, why not?

I'd say that I'm about halfway to becoming a don juan. Why I'm not there yet? because I haven't gone and met new girls yet. But i've managed to get the ones i know to freakin think of me like i'm a king n they bothered the hell outta me, expected me to go out with them when they did go out, etc...

I just need to put it to the streets. If I keep doing that, i'm sure my convo's will get better and I'll find myself with a good woman who may just deserve a man like me.
 

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ok so today when i catch her online imma be like, what's up? (she responds) so what's good with you?

i was thinking about asking if she's seeing anyone, not sure if she is or if she's not.

so do you want to fvck or not? (if she says something like what?) i'm on to your little game, i know that you're just tryin to get into my pants. so why not just come out with it? you have the opportunity to be lovers, fvckers, or friends. what's your choice?

good enough?
 

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Whoa, that's very.... uh...... straight up. I wouldn't go into it quite like that. Its like you're giving her an ultimatum. Maybe you should rethink that.

Don't worry about if she has a bf. Until she says otherwise, assume she's single.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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