"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This might be a really stupid post, but i just want other experiences and perspectives...

Does anyone have experience talking with religious, conservative non-western women? I am communicating with one right now but we wont be able to meet for a while, living in different countries. I feel somewhat puzzled of how to talk to her, since my experience is almost only with western women. And that is to get to sex ASAP so they dont get bored and move on to the next d1ck, with very little communication of actual substance. So i suppose my question is, can you actually talk about real subjects and non-dopamine, non-sexual stuff or will these women get bored too in your experience?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And that is to get to sex ASAP so they dont get bored and move on to the next d1ck, with very little communication of actual substance
How do you even know one would get bored of you without this happening quickly? My wife and I waited five months until doing it. She obviously did not get bored of me.
 

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With the advancement of years I found that many people under, say, 30 years old have the attention span of a gnat.

They don't read novels (except for the popular ones that can be discussed at the water cooler) and are generally more impatient and easily distracted.

And because they are no longer used to extended conversations, they need their info in tidbits. You have to break text up or the sheer block of writing makes them blank out.

And many, many of them are bored or get bored easily. Most people born before or at the beginning of the Internet Age rarely get bored.
This is true, but if most young women are like that, and I were to be a single guy in the current day, I’d avoid those like that, even if they’re common.

I’m not a court jester or entertainer.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I forgot to ask, if you want to do this, why not find a woman who lives in your own city, not in another country?
Im not after sex ASAP so it's fine with me, and the kind of woman im interested in doesnt exist where i am.

How do you even know one would get bored of you without this happening quickly? My wife and I waited five months until doing it. She obviously did not get bored of me.
Indeed, i dont know either way. Which is why im asking for other experiences and perspectives ;)

Focus on girls who live closer for now.
I wouldve liked to, but i want someone from my own people and they dont exist where i am, and im not really interested in making an effort to have casual sex.
 

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So i suppose my question is, can you actually talk about real subjects and non-dopamine, non-sexual stuff or will these women get bored too in your experience?
Just a be a bit more low key. Talk about normal things, but normal things that sort of low key demonstrate your status and ambition.

Use the regular tactics, scarcity, don't talk too long, don't be needy, create mystery, don't text too much, etc. That stuff works on everybody.
 

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Women tend to adjust more easily and are less impatient than male students in my workshops. And my younger lovers adore that I have them leave their phones in the hallway - part of the reason they are with me is because of the calm atmosphere of my lair.
Your game plan is to take advantage of your students like a predator?

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I leave the entertaining to my lovers. I like them to dance for me. Or reading to me to train their voices. (most of them are models or creative artists).
The male or female students or both?
 
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