Hey guys,
I know this is my first post and asking for help first is probably a bit LQ, but I felt like it was the best place to ask.
Here's the situation: My brother goes to a school with few people. He invites the whole grade to his party (like 8 kids), and he's in 1 grade below me. One girl (we'll call her Rebecca) is constantly sarcastically saying "I love you" or "No I want to hug him" and things that are obviously showing she likes me, but it's also pretty obviously sarcastic. No obvious sarcastic tone, but since no one would ever say things like that with everyone else around, I'm 99% sure it's sarcasm.
One girl had to leave the party early. She's kind of a slut, and my brother broke up with her months ago. But she asked for my # so I gave it to her. She started texting me post-party and brought up Rebecca and asked if Rebecca was being flirty. I said "yes, to everyone". So she affirmed Rebecca did it to everyone... Then I mentioned how "her boyfriend must be pissed tho", to see if Rebecca did indeed have a boyfriend.
Now, she said in reply: "she has a bf?". I said "I think, Gym?". She said "Oh. Yeah". So, apparently this girl doesn't know Rebecca that well, does she?
Then she asks if I like Rebecca. Still haven't replied. She saw my hesitation and asked something completely unrelated, but I still am not replying. I might want to go out with this girl who's texting me, but if Rebecca does in fact like me, I would want her more.
If this girl texting me (Susy) isn't friends with Rebecca, it means she's only asking me to see if I'm "up for grabs" so to speak, which would mean saying a direct "yes, I like her" would be a double lose. If she IS friends with Rebecca, and is asking me because Rebecca asked her to ask me, then that'd be great. But IDK if they're friends very much, and I don't want to risk it.
I also prefer to be direct, but I don't want to make things weird. Also, this girl Rebecca was trying to sit on my lap in the hot tub at the party, and I kind of denied her because I didn't want to show that I enjoyed it >_>. So now she thinks I dislike it when she sits on my lap... *sigh*
Btw, I never see these girls. Ever. They go to a different school, and I'm not in their group, and only connected by my brother.
Sorry for the wall of text, but I wanted to describe it in detail. Here are the questions:
1) How do I figure out if Rebecca indeed does like me?
2) What do I reply to Susy?
3) If Rebecca does like me, how will I advance the situation?
Going to an all boys' school, there are few opportunities to get with girls. I need to make the most of this one. Thanks for reading this, and thanks for your help =)
EDIT: I decided to just respond to her. Although, please give opinions of this response anyway xd. So the last texts she said was "And do u like her?" and "Do you by any chance watch supernatural?". So I said "My bad xd was watching a movie. yes and no".
I can always say I didn't mean "like like", if things go wrong.
~Piv
I know this is my first post and asking for help first is probably a bit LQ, but I felt like it was the best place to ask.
Here's the situation: My brother goes to a school with few people. He invites the whole grade to his party (like 8 kids), and he's in 1 grade below me. One girl (we'll call her Rebecca) is constantly sarcastically saying "I love you" or "No I want to hug him" and things that are obviously showing she likes me, but it's also pretty obviously sarcastic. No obvious sarcastic tone, but since no one would ever say things like that with everyone else around, I'm 99% sure it's sarcasm.
One girl had to leave the party early. She's kind of a slut, and my brother broke up with her months ago. But she asked for my # so I gave it to her. She started texting me post-party and brought up Rebecca and asked if Rebecca was being flirty. I said "yes, to everyone". So she affirmed Rebecca did it to everyone... Then I mentioned how "her boyfriend must be pissed tho", to see if Rebecca did indeed have a boyfriend.
Now, she said in reply: "she has a bf?". I said "I think, Gym?". She said "Oh. Yeah". So, apparently this girl doesn't know Rebecca that well, does she?
Then she asks if I like Rebecca. Still haven't replied. She saw my hesitation and asked something completely unrelated, but I still am not replying. I might want to go out with this girl who's texting me, but if Rebecca does in fact like me, I would want her more.
If this girl texting me (Susy) isn't friends with Rebecca, it means she's only asking me to see if I'm "up for grabs" so to speak, which would mean saying a direct "yes, I like her" would be a double lose. If she IS friends with Rebecca, and is asking me because Rebecca asked her to ask me, then that'd be great. But IDK if they're friends very much, and I don't want to risk it.
I also prefer to be direct, but I don't want to make things weird. Also, this girl Rebecca was trying to sit on my lap in the hot tub at the party, and I kind of denied her because I didn't want to show that I enjoyed it >_>. So now she thinks I dislike it when she sits on my lap... *sigh*
Btw, I never see these girls. Ever. They go to a different school, and I'm not in their group, and only connected by my brother.
Sorry for the wall of text, but I wanted to describe it in detail. Here are the questions:
1) How do I figure out if Rebecca indeed does like me?
2) What do I reply to Susy?
3) If Rebecca does like me, how will I advance the situation?
Going to an all boys' school, there are few opportunities to get with girls. I need to make the most of this one. Thanks for reading this, and thanks for your help =)
EDIT: I decided to just respond to her. Although, please give opinions of this response anyway xd. So the last texts she said was "And do u like her?" and "Do you by any chance watch supernatural?". So I said "My bad xd was watching a movie. yes and no".
I can always say I didn't mean "like like", if things go wrong.
~Piv
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