"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you do when a woman texts you, you text back but she doesn't, then she'll text again a few days later and the same cycle continues. I want this girl to be interested in me, so how do i get her to do that?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dont answer her text. I know it is hard to do, especially when you get to talking or think that is your chance to move in on her but dont answer them for a while.
 
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thats what i was thinking, but when i do text her back, what do i say?
 
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Does this girl know that you're trying to get with her? If so, then just ask her out. If she says "yes," then you get what you want. If she says, "no," then you don't have to play text games with her anymore.

If you're still at some pseudo-friendship stage, then you have more important things to worry about.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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like the above poster said, wait a few days or so and then just ask her out. She has probablly lost interest because you have not made a move or have shown lack of dominance by not making a phone call instead to set up a date.

So at the moment your just wasting your time, so just take a chance and
move on.
 
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