"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice???

Jokerlsk

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Guys I don't know what to do. I feel like i'm slipping back into my AFC mindset and i don't know how to shift back. It started last month when i was suppose to go to the girl i was gamings party, but i forgot about it. The entire time i was in a competition with this guy i know personally that goes to her school. The next day (her actual b-day) i told her "happy b-day" and she asked if i forgot about her party. I'm not going to lie i told her that "i'm completely sorry and i'll make it up to her." she told me not to worry about it. The day after that i find out that she is going out with that POS i was in a competition for. I really screwed up and because of this i went back into afc mode. Any advice guys?????????? I want to move on and i'm interested in another girl who gave me her number the last day of school. should i just start gaming her? and if so how?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She goes out with someone else? What is the problem? Are you in love with her? Oneism? Go out with that other girl, when you have the opportunity. Use your new mindset, get the girl, forget about the other one. Good luck.
 

Jokerlsk

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Thanks. Any more help??? The other girl is a year older than me and gave me her number about a month ago. I still haven't called......... You guys think i should just call her up tomorrow or something??
 

Evolution

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Jokerlsk said:
Thanks. Any more help??? The other girl is a year older than me and gave me her number about a month ago. I still haven't called......... You guys think i should just call her up tomorrow or something??
call her and see whats up. The phone call isn't a big deal, you just make it seem like it, and it will be so. You don't make it a big deal, then it won't.
 
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