"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Balian15

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ok so this is my story, i met the girl on the bus a couple of weeks ago, i talked to her in passing before but i finely got her number,after that we texted every day.i liked her for a while and told her the other day,she had just had broken up with her boyfriend and told me she had no energy for a relationship, i told her whatever and stopped talking to her to let things kool, so last Thursday she started to text me the whole day,she said she had to tell me something and she wanted to tell me face to face. she went on the bus that day but she dident tell me,she said she forgot. i knew she was lieing but i let it past.when i got home i got on aim and she was on,she said she remembered(go figure),she told me she liked me and that she had broken up with her boyfriend cuz of me she had feelings for me(before i had told her).

so this is my dilemma, her last couple of boyfriends havent lasted more then a month,and to add more to it im going on vacation for 2 weeks(the week befor spring break and spring break).

so, should i wait till i coem back from vacation(to cuba) or should i just ask her out?

advice appreciated guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Strike one - You already made the mistake of confessing to her.
Strike two -you're worrying about the fact that all her other boyfriends didn't last long.
Go out with her but try not to make mistakes if you want to keep her. Don't be too clingy.
By also going on your holiday while yous are going out, you'll give her the gift of missing you.
Same situation happened to me ages ago. The girl was a monkey with tits, swinging from one branch to the next. The harder you try to hang on to her the faster she'll leave.
 
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