"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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here's the situation: single girl. we get along well, i make her laugh easily and ALOT, little kino but she often initiates it. all our conversations so far have been light and funny (often initiated by her as well).

question 1: should i suck it and just ask her out? am unsure about her Interest Level, but she definately doesnt dislike me. caught her glancing at me more than a few times already when we're sitting with friends.

question 2: how should i ask her out? phone call > talk a bit, make her laugh > then ask?

question 3: should i pick her from her place? im thinking i shouldnt, and meet her at where we'll be going instead
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question 1: should i suck it and just ask her out? am unsure about her Interest Level, but she definately doesnt dislike me. caught her glancing at me more than a few times already when we're sitting with friends.

Yes, ask her out bro and hurry up. If you stall to long she's going to give up on you and move on. Girls use their eyes to flirt and show interest, get on it.

question 2: how should i ask her out? phone call > talk a bit, make her laugh > then ask?

Always suggest going out in person if possible. Making her laugh a bit before inviting her out for coffee (or whatever you suggest) is a good idea. Don't send text messages or emails, that's weak.

question 3: should i pick her from her place? im thinking i shouldnt, and meet her at where we'll be going instead

Why wouldn't you want to pick her up?
 
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Ill go with number 3 -

What kind of car do you drive?? If its a peice of ****, spend 20 mins coming up with some game and funny stories about your "sh1tbox". Give it a fun name.

WHen my Grand CHerokee was in the shop for week, I was barrowing my sisters hunk of **** truck. But the girl I was dating Loved getting in the "big blue dildo". WHy? Because getting into the peice of **** ment getting in with me, and laughing her ass off. This is what you need to do.

suddenly that 500 buck honda car is fun to ride in.. If YOU can make it fun.!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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